Real wife, fake wife

I have seen a program last night regarding that situation. And I think that the real wife must be bleeding inside. She appears to be fine with the idea but I know that it kills her everytime when his husband sleeps at night with the other woman. I think this is a crazy situation plus it does not give a good example to their kids.

Hi Bryan I hope that you are fine. I think that this is a very sad situation. It´s an abusive behavior. In many countries is forbidden by laws. It´s not fair. Blessings Bryan... dainy

Hi there bryan! I see this in a story created in local news program called Rated K. It was such a story that deeply troubled me. I could not even think of a woman who would be like that - very thick faced and would be living on the same house as the real wife. To me, she is shameless. This woman in the story was also a graduate and is educated, why would she not use her head and think clearly and not waste her time being the other woman and sharing a husband?! i could not even tolerate a boyfriend who cheats and if i was the wife in this situation, i would have kicked my husband in the face and slap this woman's face too and tell them to get out of my sight! This husband is so thick faced to even think about doing this! Why, does he think he is God's gift to women? Darn women who allow themselves to fall victims to these predators. Its not as if he gave this mistress a wonderful life! No - she was also helping with the expenses.

Hi there Bryan09! Welcome to Mylot! Personally, I would never permit this to happen. I think this is disrespectful and painful for the wife. I was able to witness this kind of situation wherein my boyfriend's father has his family and his other family living in a compound and everyone is aware of the situation and they seem okay with it. Not me, though. I believe in marriage, the vows, loyalty, faithfulness and respect. This may be acceptable in some cultures but thankfully, not in ours.

Under such situation wife should act against such behavior of her husband. She should make a point not to allow her husband do such act in front of her children in the same home. Even the husband should think what will be the impact of his such behavior on his children and how they will respect him.

i saw this situation once in a tv reality show Face off here in the Philippines, and all i can say is I were in that situation, I'd leave and take my kid with me. Because it will be stupid for me to try and fix our relationship when he don't even respect me anymore, so i'd rather leave, and hope karma knocks on their door.

Many people who are in a relationship do have a hidden agenda. There are also men who (suddenly) are muslim a good excuse to have more wives, altough they don't live by the rules at all (taking care of all of them equally, love them equally). There are also men who have 3 wives for over 20 years and they manage all these years and the wives are never suspicious (what a great actor you must be if you can continue whit that for such a long time). If it comes to that men are way better as women. A men can easily hide his wives plus children, for a woman this is not the case.

That's just tacky. I kind of find this guy really conceited, and not caring about others' emotions, only his ones. I mean, what would it be like for his kids to share their place with the new woman? Especially if the house the original couple bought together, and the wife paid for the place, too.