I visited the deaf and dumb school in my town

Several people have gotten upset with the use of the term "dumb" ... i.e., "deaf and dumb school." I am very surprised, but wonder if it is cultural differences, that have brought about this negativism. "Dumb" in the specific case of the term "deaf and dumb" has absolutely NOTHING to do with intelligence! surekharathi is NOT calling the students at the school unintelligent or stupid -- the term "dumb," as used here, means that those students do not have the ability to SPEAK, in the same way that "deaf" relates to their inability to HEAR. Here is a dictionary definition: [b]World English Dictionary dumb[/b] (d?m) — adj 1. lacking the power to speak, either because of defects in the vocal organs or because of hereditary deafness Granted, it does not seem politically correct, in this day and age, to continue to use the term "deaf and dumb" and, in many cases, people now use "deaf-mute" instead (although many object to that, as well), it really should be understood that the person who began this discussion is not being derogatory in any way.

That is definitely something you can be proud of surekharathi. Please understand, I am aware of cultural differences, but the word dumb can be considered an offensive term. The term mentally challenged is more suitable for the discussion. Continue to make a positive difference in the lives of people. Good day.

It was very nice of you. But I do find it sad that in 2013 that people think that people who are deaf are dumb. They are not. Calling deaf people dumb can affect their lives, their self esteem, the value they have in life. Being deaf doesn't make anyone dumb. Please think about that and change your way of thinking and get others to realize that deaf people are not dumb, they are very very smart. They just don't hear. Not their fault at all, either accident or injury or birth defect cause it. But it does not affect the mind. When I saw the headline of this, I was like WOW really they call it a deaf and dumb school. They use to to that here in America, but people like Helen Keller who was not only deaf but blind, show America that just because you have disabilities does not make them stupid or dumb.

It is good for you to listen to your heart or your conscience. There are always people around us who need some kind of help. The person who does the charitable deed many times feels as much of a blessing as the one who is the receiver. This may be a new habit for you to do these things.

Hi Surekha bhabhi. Well it is really noble thing to go out and spend time and spread some happiness to such unfortunate people. I think this is what many people do not realize in their life. They always cry for such small things that they do not realize how small their problems are. I will take my children to ashrams and all from childhood days itself so that they will be able to realize how lucky they are even if they are going through bad times in life. Have a nice day !!! SuperShames

just for you to say dumb you should have your head handed to you unless you a sttpid man or woman your not god dont judge ever

That was very nice of you to help. Very kind of you.You are a sweet person to help people.The only thing i don't like is the wordd umb because it makes me think of stupid. I know dumb means mute unable to talk so why do they call them dumb when dumb to me is stupid which they are not. Can't they just say deaf and mute.Tho again your very kind to have helped them.

Hello surekharathi this is checkmail and me too have been visiting one of such hospitals where there were school adjoins them for deaf and mute children.I was visiting it for mine own ear checkup, but really felt confused with emotions after observing them. Once i felt real happy and felt to love those kids but suddenly do felt sorry for their loss and almost lost mine every though. Just nothing can make it up to make their loss go away still managed to play with few kids. I literally didn't understand what they wanted, still remembering it.

I do consider myself to be very lucky that both of my children are perfectly able and they are able to use all five of their senses. I couldn't imagine what it would be like to have to go through life without having the opportunity to hear music or anything like that. In our state there is a school for the deaf that is about 45 minutes away from where we live. When I was in high school we used to have swim meets there on a regular basis and I always thought that it was really neat to see the different ways that deaf individuals have to do things.

Hello Surkeha yours deed is noble one. Yes person who have healthy is lucky and rich one. I always said a person who have two hands to work, legs to walk, eyes to see and ear to hear is rich one. I am also lucky before some years. Now I am a deaf and can't walk without help. So I know feeling of disable person. Always give them moral support, don't treat them like impecunious,

I Have to admit that I have no idea of the snack that you mentioned but I can say it was very nice for you to reach out to those children in the school...I am sure they were surprised and pleased that an outside even thought enough about them the bring snacks.. Many blessing be with you...

Hi, You are very kind person. You have done good deed by giving some food to deaf and dumb boys. Their happy faces must have been make you happy. You can see the confidence on that children.s faces. I haven't visited any such school but I know some deaf and dumb people who are self dependent. It's true that when we see people disabled people we should thank God that we are healthy and normal.

Wow, that is such a wonderful gesture for those special kids. I am sure they enjoyed your visit as well. It is nice to know that they have a place like that for kids like them. They are doing something and getting an education and at the same time they are enjoying it with their friends.

Its really good of you to do such a thing. I have a deaf n dumb uncle he was a tailor but now he is at home. I also once donated some money and clothes to orphanage. We should really do something for them

Such things are always appreciated and we all should do such things again for the most deserved. Apart from all, they will get a mental satisfaction that there are are some people still take care of them and our simple approach also can make great changes in their minds. Thank you.

Very nice thing to do, I wish there was another way to call those kind of schools is all.