Questions need to ask on a first date

I looked up those six questions and I don't agree with them. When you first meet a person you want to get a feel for them as a human being. To ask these kinds of question is like you are presenting a check list for them to fill out. I know I would be personally offended by them. The first date is important. This is where you get a feel for a person by how they treat you. To present them with a check list....sorry that would give me serious red flags. I would wonder if this person is possessive or obsessive. I mean really who really does that on a first date? I think the first date is just getting to know a person on the surface level. What they enjoy doing, eating....you're finding common ground for interests. If you get along well then you are talking about general interest...do you enjoy animals, do you like to take walks...etc so you can find something you both enjoy for that second date. I don't think there is a timeline on when to ask these indepth questions. I think it naturally comes out when you reach a good comfort level.

If you want to know.more about the girl, asking her about her interests and family would surely give you a lot of idea. As witb past relationships, well, maybe you could ask is why she thought of having to give it up. Well, if course, ut woukd be better if you'd ask permussion if it was ojay to ask her those kinds of questions with regards to her past relationships. If she says it's okay, then ask away. But uf she refuses, well, just think of things that you can actually share with her a.d am sure the conversation woukd be great.

I would ask relevant questions so there is reason to have a second date. Not married? Past relationships? Things in common? Family life? Does the other person feel we have a connection? I would think that these are important.

I think first thing to ask is about personality and current situation of the girl or guy. Ask her about family and things she/he likes the most. Be aware of the situation and talk as normal as you did to your friend. That is the best thing to make good ambiance in a first date.

for me when i am in a first date the question that i will ask is are you really serious doing this with me,then next to that is are you happy doing this for being with me,that's it,those question will make me satisfy and happy what ever his answer is.

I don't know if there are a certain kind of questions one should ask but I do think you should know what you want or at least do not want for sure in a relationship. So find out asap if the person you date with (or already spoke to before you start dating) has the same ideas, likes, dislikes as you have. Otherwise you will only get hurt.

Silly me ! I don't care what he does for a living. If he has been married or not. Or how he thinks he treated his last lover. I want to know about him. Period. I would always ask about what is his favorite movie is. And what he likes to do for fun. Believe it or not these will tell me if we are to be just good friends or it can be serious In time.

If you are considering it to be a date, then please do not treat it like an interrogation session. I am sure constructive conversation to be real ice breakers and getting your date encouraged to talk about herself. Not trying to look like prying for her discomfort, I hope you will consider a prospect for the next date and not get yourself to be blacklisted on every social networks for being an "interrogator". Tips are meant to guide you and not to be followed blindly without considering your date's feelings. If you cannot even pass this test then don't even considered yourself qualified for a date.

Hmmm...I think there is no need to ask personal questions on the first date though. It might offend them, but the important thing is be yourself. At least also give a good impression but not overdoing much. Anyways if that person likes you then you can go out again for second.

Every time that I've been on a first date, I have to say that the main thing that I want to talk about is myself and the person that I'm on a date with. You see, it is my feeling that on a first date the most important thing that we can do is to get to know the person that we are seeing. When it comes to a first date, there is a good chance that the relationship will not be a long term relationship and I don't really want to make myself start worrying about the person that I'm seeing and what the future will hold for us. I want to get to know a person before I get really serious like that.

About her past relationship and how she feels being with you and also the level of intimacy must be kept in mind

I don't really know if there are right questions on a first date, I just ask what I wanted to know and observe how the guy responds to me. I won't be offended if he refuses to answer. I wouldn't mind being ask with everything if I really like the guy, because if I want to have a relationship with him I want him to know everything about me. Besides I don't have anything to hide. If I can talk to a guy freely like no hesitation and just enjoy the conversation then we probably have a chance to be in a relationship.

To my understanding, when you start a relationship, there is an important point to consider and this is honesty. Once you decide to be honest a set of questions can be asked and be answered, as well. When was the last time you were in love? What are you expecting from a mate? What's your ideal mate? Are you being honest to me? There may be other questions to ask on a first day; however, I think these questions will help start an honest and lasting relationship.

it is not a wise choice when you ask questions like that on a first date. just to feel her, your heart will tell you whether she is your type or not.

Why would anyone want to talk about past relationships pn a first date? Asking about family and interests is good. Well not too many questions about family because sometimes that can be a sore subject. I think asking about interests is good because you get to know each other and find out what you have in common. I certainly wouldn't want anyone to ask me about previous relationships on a first date - and possibly not until I'm in an established relationships, if at all.

Hi. Do not get mislead or rely too much on the writer who wrote the article. He had to write an article on dating tips and he would have written as per his own whims and facies or may be his own experiences so let it be. To my mind it should be spontaneous and whatever comes in your mind while dating for the first time with a person, should be talked about. Keep enjoying.

it is great to learn from some websites that acknowledge and flaunt their knowledge on dating. for those who are still new in the trade of dating, they are very valuable and informative. however, for those who are into the dating activities, nothing beats the experience and lessons of the past dates. for me, the question i usually ask is about her interests so that the next date will arranged according to her interest. i also ask about the qualities that she likes in guys. this gives me ideas on how i act, but i always tuck several surprises still.

I seldom have dates, but I would love to share my little experience with you. To be honest, I never ask relationship of the man I date ever before. I prefer to ask his job, what's his job about? Anyway, I just want to see the man is reliable or not. Also, I will see he is gentlemen or not? I dislike rude man.

Never had a date, so never needed to ask any question. You didn't mentioned the questions, we just can't search that yahoo article. Normal questions like siblings and interest are not date type questions, we can ask them to friends also.

Just be very careful on a first date. Go to a public place and only go to his place if you feel comfortable. It is always best to protect yourself in all cases until you get to know the person really well, I hope you get to know the person really good,.