difference between falling in love and been in love

Falling in love is the starting stage where you enter into love which is full of happiness whereas being in love in middle stage which is half filled happiness and half filled sadness but final stage is still unknown when you are in either of those stages. anyhow final stage is either happiness or sadness. If you marry your lover, you feel happy at that moment and remaining part of life can be happy or sad it depends... If you do not marry your love, it is a complete sadness rest of your life :D

falling in love is painful and a time when most of your energy will be spoiled by portraying yourself. Been in love means you can do everything with full energy and also in a meaningful way. Perhaps you have mentioned as if you are in a stage where you are with a love and its not like the initial time of your love with him or her. Think again, i guess you are to redefine your views. Thank you.

Hi dear friend Gowtham, you are right. I think that there is time and age for each situation. If I were 20 years young, I´d be happy to fall in love of a charming and kind guy. But now that I´m 40 I prefer to be in love. I need to be in love of my husband to continue living together for the rest of our lives. Blessings Gowtham... dainy

Well it's not the same as falling in love though, but I prefer to be in love. You don't have so much worries about trying to impress the other person, but just be yourself and knowing that the person loves you back, now that's it the best feeling.

The current feeling that you have for a special person would surely be the one that would make you happy than thinking of a past love.