Will I ever find Mr. Right?
By TriciaW
@TriciaW (2441)
United States
March 4, 2013 1:40pm CST
I have had two failed marriages. The first one cheated on me and the second one was abusive. I had been with others but they always seem to end. I am wondering these days if I will ever find someone that will care about me and treat me good. I pray all the time for God's will yet I see the ones that hurt me with new relationships and it makes me wonder if I am supposed to live alone and why is it that God has blessed them with others yet I am alone. I tell myself that it is ok to be alone and I don't need a man in my life but sometimes I feel so lonely. I wish at times for someone to hold me and tell me everything is ok. I then wonder if I am just unlovable. I must be good at something because my exes still talk to me and a couple want to be with me but I have gone down that road and no it is not a road I can go down. I won't be treated badly anymore. I just wish I knew if there was a reason I am supposed to be alone and if so what do I do when I am feeling so alone. Yes I have gone to dating sites however it would seem they only are looking for one thing and not what I wanted a relationship based on. I am just tired of it and yes a bit sad about it all. Will I ever find Mr. Right?
7 responses
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
4 Mar 13
I'm pretty sure everyone can find their perfect ones, some are just more lucky than others. But the only thing I can advise you is never to give up. If you have a positive attitude about the whole love seeking thing (and not in a way to persuade yourself that living alone is cool, when you feel bad... because there are people who need company and love to be happy, but that DOESN'T show weakness... but in a way that you have hope that beautiful things can happen to you, and you deserve them), it's going to turn better. Because, if you feel content in your skin, and have hope, you are going to be more glowing :).
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@kennetah (14)
• Kenya
6 Mar 13
It unfortunate but we all hurt from time to time.There is no gaurantee that you will ever get a Mr right.Its a good thing that you are praying about it,it helps.Remember a good wife or husband is God sent and if you are lucky you wont have to wait for long.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
All I can say is that you will surely find Mr. Right. He might not be there soon but don't get worried. All those failed relationships that you have been will be your armor/tool in making the best relationship ever.
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@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
If you are tired you can always take a break looking for Mr. Right. Besides, why do we need men anyway? As far as I know, we don't need them.
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@Nandita2013 (132)
• India
5 Mar 13
Dont worry someone somewhere is made for you he will reach to you when the right time comes. Earlier i used to live in my own world waiting for my prince but things that happen in movies dont happen in real life. I married a man whom my parents found for me its been 5years and we are doing pretty good i have a 3year old daughter and he is a responsible father too. So just wait... Maybe GOD has kept sum good surprises fo u..
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
4 Mar 13
I feel the same as you. I was married for 12 years. First 5 years were great. Then he started drinking and got abusive. So i left him. i still have hope I will find my mr. right, someday.
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