are we still okay?

I am thinking too, that with this age of gadgets, couples can't help it if at night, they would have both laptops or whatever gadget they have to attend to when they are in their bed resting. I am glad i am not alone though. Yes, we would always eat a snack, like chips or whatever and juice in our bedroom. It's one way of bonding actually. And of course we do flirt with each other along the way too. So, i think this is okay.

My hubby and me eat snacks on our bed to most of the time..ahaha (and yes I do know its not a good habit)and true because of these technologies we couldn't help it. anyway connection is not always about talking..so were fine.

I am happy that i am not alone on this. Yes, connection is not always about talking. It's about eating together, while doing things on our respective gadgets.

In the midst of what we are doing we always have some intimacy, like hugs and kisses. Besides, we always make it a point to share whatever we are doing, like show to him some funny posts at FB and him letting me play with him on his phone. So i think we are okay. Last night though , he told me that if ever our TV is finally repaired (it has some bit of problem and we haven't taken attention in having it repaired) we will be back into normal meaning we will not be doing our respective activities in our gadgets. So i told him to look for a repairman for our TV.

My rest day from work is only Sunday. His dayoff is Friday, but he still goes to work, because i am at work and he said it's double pay for him. So on Sundays, if i get to wake up early, he would go with me to attend mass. Then , he would proceed to his work. Thus our bonding time is after office work. On some Holidays like Black Friday yes we bond because we are just at home. I cook foods that he and my daughter likes, watch DVDs. We also eat out. It's one nice way of bonding.

I am happy to know that on your free day, you bond with your boyfriend. On my Rest day at work, Sunday, he has work. On his free day , Friday, i have work, so he goes to work just the same because i am not in the house anyway. But we do go to church on Sunday together sometime, if i was able to wake up early. Thus, mostly our bonding time is at night after work. Though, even if we are in our respective gadgets, we bond by joining each other on what we are doing. We also eat snacks i prepare. Usually, i would leave whatever i am doing and join him in his phone playing, which he would gladly share with me and so we laugh a lot. We also talk while we both do our respective fun in our phones and laptops. We would also call to talk with our daughter who is in a far city studying, in the phone. Amidst what we respectively do, we share affections , stories, laughter and even flirt with each other. We truly can feel each others' love despite being that. So, i think we are okay.

Yes, we both feel love for each other so much. One can feel that, specially when we kiss each other when we arrive and we get out of the house.

We both have full time jobs and on my rest day it's still work day for him. On his day off, it's my work day also for me, so he just go to work. Though, whenever he arrives from work, i would serve him supper or join him and we talk. Or when we are in the bedroom at night i would prepare a snack and we would share it. There's always a communication and sharing of affectionate words, gestures , and laughter even if we are in our respective gadgets. I don't want to restrict him in playing on his phone, because i know it's his way of relaxing. So i join him in whatever he is doing and that's so fine with him. Makes us laugh a lot.

On my rest day, Sunday he has still work. Sometimes, he can't go to church with me, unless i wake up so early. Though on Sundays he comes home earlier so he can dine with us.

Thanks for affirming that we are still okay , Rwaine. Yes, we still talk, laugh and join each other in whatever we are doing, like when i am in FB, i would show him some funny Shares and we would watch it together. I would prepare a snack and eat together while we join in playing & watching what there is to share in whatever we are doing in our respective gadgets. Sometimes amidst what we are doing as couples talking to each other about how the day has been and other topics is an affirmation that despite our busyness, we are still okay as couples.

I think so too, but i asked the opinions of others because i am doubtful in some ways. Well, on Sundays my rest day, he is still working. Thus, sometimes i wake up early so he could come to me to church before proceeding to work. Their nature of work is that even on holidays and Sundays they have work. His day off is Friday, but i have my work. Though, he doesn't avail it, because he said anyway he has nothing to do at home, since i am at work. Well, i might as well always just play with him on his phone and talk with one another even if we are playing on our phones or i am on my laptop.

Actually every night we bond by eating something in our bedroom, while we are doing other things. Sometimes, i would buy his favorite snacks and prepare his favorite juice. Over that, we talk about our works , our daughter and other things. We make time to be with each other like him turning on the Talking Tom on his phone so we could both play it. As it mimics everything we say, we really laugh a lot together hearing Tom! Then, once we have bonded we can do our own games on our respective phones or me sometimes on the laptop, to do mylot. So i think we are still so okay.

Thanks for saying that my friend. Well yes, until now , we still have that "spark". It manifests in the way we laugh every night we're together fiddling with his android phone. And yes, i know that's his interest so i just let him and sometimes join him. I am glad you said that, so now i can say that we're okay.