Figuring Myself Out
By Gage Bitch
@queengreen0 (85)
United States
March 5, 2013 12:43am CST
I've come to terms with who I am. I am an androgynous female that enjoys dressing as male. I know I confuse the crap out of people. I can't help how I look naturally. I'm proud to be androgynous. Being androgynous doesn't mean I'm lesbian, butch, wanting to be a man, transgender, or anything like that. For me, it is my balance of masculine and feminine traits, allowing me to pass as a beautiful woman and as a very handsome man. I'm able to do this with a simple change of clothes, no make up or special effects. Realizing what made me stand out, I'm more comfortable with myself and more confident. Now I have a chance to model as male. Wish me luck!!
8 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
All that matters is you are happy with it. You should not mind how people think about you. The love of your family and real friends will help you enjoy life more.
Wishing you good luck on your career! Do update us about your journey!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
That's great! Support from them as well as perseverance will surely help you succeed. See you around!
@queengreen0 (85)
• United States
5 Mar 13
I try not to, sometimes it gets to me. I have the support of two good friends and my boyfriend. I will definitely keep you guys posted :D
@marguicha (222855)
• Chile
5 Mar 13
Welcome to mylot! I understand that everyone can have their say in how they dress. But I don`t understand much how can they hire you as a male model. I have the idea that they hire muscular men (not the ones I like best though).
@queengreen0 (85)
• United States
5 Mar 13
They can hire me because I can pass as male, they don't discriminate. They don't always hire muscular men. Loads of people want a size 4-8 model. Andre Pejic is a prime example, very skinny and he models as a woman mostly.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 13
I too have a friend, she is a successful movie producer in my country.
Her latest movie was nominated for all categories, the first film
that achieved such an acclamation in history of my country. She
dressed as a man and can passed as a man too. She is very creative
and I believe her dress sense earns the respect in this industry
and she can think like the dominants in this industry too. She is
very sweet looking and very capable. I am very proud of her. You
too is a success since you know who you are and what you want!
@queengreen0 (85)
• United States
6 Mar 13
Thanks! I wish I could meet your friend for some tips lol. THanks again though :)
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
I have seen an androgynous male from our country trying to make a name in the fashion industry as a female model. No make-up or special effects, wow, i think you must be really beautiful and handsome at the same time, lol! I wish you all the luck.
@queengreen0 (85)
• United States
5 Mar 13
Do you know his name? Thanks! I'm going to add my picture, tell me what you think. :)
@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
6 Mar 13
For me it is okey as long as you are happy and comfortable with your way of dressing.But I am just curious do you have a boyfriend?.. ( well that question is too personal so it is okey if you refuse to answer it.) I am just curious if your boyfriend is supportive when it comes to your own style of dressing.. Anyway goodluck to your modeling!
@queengreen0 (85)
• United States
6 Mar 13
Lol cool! Yes I have a boyfriend and he is very supportive. Thanks again!!
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
6 Mar 13
Its your life, your choice. People who care and love you just have to deal with it.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
hi. It was good that you finally realize who you are. That means you can live according to what makes you happy. I have also a friend who loves to dress neat and acts very feminine but he's actually a guy. He's not in any way a transgender.
@queengreen0 (85)
• United States
5 Mar 13
Hi! That's so cool! I wish I could meet him. Not that many people around here support people like your friend and I.