should i remove this friend :?

Not being mean, but if she has clearly said that she really doesn't want friends, I don't think that she could even stay long enough in this site. This site is about people who connects themselves to one another to be able to reach out and share.

I think that if he/she wants he/she will remove you. Don't worry about it. If this person is against adding friends why did she/he add you in the first place.

I would not remove that friend. The discussions that you saw that stated he/she does not want to add friends may have been due to other issues that person was having with adding new friends that had absolutely nothing to do with you personally. If the person accepted your friendship request then that kind of tells me that you were not one of the ones that he/she had issue with. As for not responding to your discussions, that could be for a number of reasons. I don't respond to each and every one of my friends discussions as it would take too much time and I can't always relate to them. I respond to discussions that I can relate to whether they are on my friends list or not. Also we often have trouble with getting notifications and when that happens we tend to miss a lot of otherwise good discussions. If this friend had a problem with you then I think he/she would either PM you and let you know or just delete you. Of course, if you really want to delete this person, it is your choice.

I am all for adding a person so can follow their discussions easier, but the asking of personal information until really got a feel for them would bother me. Am agreeing with what others said here. Just leave the person for now. If they want to remove later on down the road they can.

Just ignore that friend. No need to do that my friend. If she/he doesn't like you than move on. She's not the only friend you have here at Mylot anyway.

I don't think you should remove the user from your friends list.Let him remain there.Don't gibe him your personal information.Remain indifferent to him.I mean,ignore him.If he comments back on your responses or responds to your discussions,it is his choice,and if he does not comment back or respond to your posts,that too is his choice.You needn't bother.If he feels uncomfortable because of you,let him remove you from his friends list.Again it is his choice and his decision.After all we are just online friends.

I would honestly leave it down to them, if they don't want to be your friend then it's down to them to take you off their friends list, I wouldn't give it another thought, you other good friends that matter more than just this one person.

hi I was going to say along with gifts that yuo shuld just leave it alone but I get the feeling from what you have said that it is making you uncomfortable and so if it really does make you feel uncomfortable with what this friend said in a discussion I would delete him or her from your friends list. I am a bit surprised that the admins did let that discussion stand when this person said he did not like to add friends but had to. That does not ssund one bit friendly to me.

Probably you should remove her from your friend list if you are uncomfortable to have her around and sitting among your friends. Well, it is up to you to decide, she probably will not even notice that her name is removed from your friend list and could care less about it especially if she has several hundred of friends inside her profile. Just my two cents for you to digest, you are free to do whatever you like .

If he was uncomfortable with the friends request with you, he wouldnt have sent it. And if he hates communicating with so much then I think he will remove you from the list anyways. So dont fret. Just let it me. I am sure it is not you.

Well, even if you remove this person from your list of friends on Mylot, it is your personal choice, if the problem is only in the fact that this person never responds to your comments, it does not seem appropriate to do so. However, if this person is bothering you, then the speech is completely different! Yet I do have a lot of friends here, most of which are inactive (I can also see from their score of ranking). Sometimes I clean and delete the ones that have "abandoned" the site. all in all I know that who writes who comment on my discussions and, in the end, however, are always the same people. That said, I repeat, is your choice!

I would try not to let it bother you. Some people don't like adding friends here that have not been around a long time due to being spammed. Maybe that was all they meant by it? I don't know, that was just a guess. I was spammed here really bad a while ago by a new user so I am careful now who I add to my friends list. =)

If that friend of yours is uncomfortable then it is up to her to do as she pleases, whether to remove you or not. Don't let it bother you too much, I am sure that she is not the only friend you have here.