i am under a lot of stress
By jazel_juan
@jazel_juan (15746)
Philippines
March 5, 2013 3:47am CST
And let me relieve it here for awhile.
This is the first time this year, if i won't let this out i will definitely burst!
There is too much work at the office, with the audit coming plus reports plus a lot of other kind of added work, i will definitely burst! 
But well i am taking this one step at a time. Usually if i am not that occupied i still have time for mylot! but too much is on my hand right now i could barely open the browser sad to say !
Plus a lot of stress at home too, with the kid's exam coming, my son's graduation coming..and whole other things! wahhh!!!
But well i am taking this one by one and i know this will too will pass and every things has its reasons...
But well i am taking this one step at a time. Usually if i am not that occupied i still have time for mylot! but too much is on my hand right now i could barely open the browser sad to say !
Plus a lot of stress at home too, with the kid's exam coming, my son's graduation coming..and whole other things! wahhh!!!
But well i am taking this one by one and i know this will too will pass and every things has its reasons...1 person likes this
19 responses
@danix1982 (593)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
same here, i hope we could relieve our stress for a day. mine i like chocolate for my stress reliever for a while then go back to work again. God bless us!
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
i did ate some yesterday but i don't want to overdo it because i might gain that much weight! 
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Hahaha yes i ate some cadbury and i have to control myself from finishing the whole bar!
@danix1982 (593)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
yes too much eating of sweets can gain weight. that is why we need to control too much for being healthy. :)
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Chill jazel. That's how it is if your job is in the accounting department. That's why i never want to go back to this department and just stay at the GM's office. 
Same situation at our office. The Accounting Department is currently being audited since yesterday. They went home after 9pm for some urgent needed documents. And so with tonight, they requested for OT.
Yes, these things will pass , so take it one by one and deal with it as it comes.
In a matter of days you can be seen here again.
Same situation at our office. The Accounting Department is currently being audited since yesterday. They went home after 9pm for some urgent needed documents. And so with tonight, they requested for OT.
Yes, these things will pass , so take it one by one and deal with it as it comes.
In a matter of days you can be seen here again. @jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
i really hope this will be over soon! i can't wait for the long weekend during the holy week!
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
Just take it one at a time as what you have said. It will only be too stressful if you think on it all at the same time. Pause for some time, take a deep breath, smile and think positive that all will get over soon. The more you think of it like that, the better.
We can only take one thing at a time so don't stress too much or have a helper at least to help you solve with other things specially the one at home, your hubby might help with your kids exam, tell him if he can review his son or some other things you worry about, give it to him so that you can handle the rest.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
He did helped with the kids and let me sleep earlier than than the usual. I am quite grateful for that, now it is a bit lax but i think i still need a break.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 Mar 13
don't be stress and solve everything step by step. Don't worry too much what haven't came yet.
Your sons' study...just let them do it, encourage them focus and prepare for their exam, graduation well, i think you don't need to get stress about it. Trust your kids, they can do their study.
Your work in the office, just solve it step by step, and don't push yourself, for sure you will solve it all soon.
I used to get much stress from many things my study, earning money, etc...but i found our that, just try our best to do and don't think or worry too much, every things will be easier...and sure stress won't touch you also.
Relax first...
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
i can't let my kids do it alone ryanong, he is just 5 years old and needs to be guided.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
5 Mar 13
You're right, just take it one at a time. If you let the tree to get the best you, it will not change the situation, it will not help you get things done. So you might as well not waste your time and energy trying to let it overwhelm you or stress you. Take a couple fo breaks every now and then. When you're tired, stop and rest for a while. Work will never be finished, it will never be over or else we will no longer have jobs tomorrow.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
hahah so true, work will never be finished or when it does a new one comes along
@binaybbsr1 (375)
• India
6 Mar 13
Hi, you have opened up everything that makes your life valuable. The fools are never stressed and no one even think to provide him any task. You are intelligent and thats why you are with many liabilities both at office and home as well. You va correctly spelled out on completing tasks in preference and i bet you can do it. Ve a nice day.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Thank you, i know i can do it...just taking one step at a time.
@GardenGerty (160624)
• United States
5 Mar 13
Yeah, this is a great place to take a breath. I hope your work slows down for you soon and that you can relax.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
i really hope it will happen soon my friend.
btw, i love you avatar! is that you?
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
i won't complain with the pay as the pay is good and the benefits are great but sometimes the work gets too much that i don't know if this is still good lol
@angelkarah050182 (4980)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Oh, take it easy. Sometimes we are so busy and there are times that we are also in idle. You have to tell yourself that these things will end soon and you can have enough time to relax. If you'll think of these things, you'll be more stressed. Prioritize things. Do one thing at a time. If you can do two things it's better. Goodluck. I hope you won't be stressed soon.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
I am trying to do things one at a time right now and hopefully this will end soon.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
every people have their own stress and we also have different cases why we stress,they said that it is case to case problem,sometimes your problem is not a problem to other people,but the truth is really hard to handle problems when we are stress.
@marycheene (53)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
This is the exact reason why I quit my job, I took it all in,all the time, everyday. But you don't need to end up like me. That is right, take it one at a time. Don't take work at home. Don't think about it while outside the office. Never render overtime if you can put down the task and get back to it tomorrow. It's also important to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Make sure go out with your family or friends once a week. It will take your mind off your job, at least for a while. Good luck!
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Yes i am quite lucky i have a group from Church that gathers every week, Fridays and i get to unwind with them. I am actually looking forward to that this Friday.
@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Maybe it's time to losen up a bit and not let stress consume you so much. Learn to relax don't take things too seriously.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
Hi Jazel ! That is what we call as life ! Sometimes things are simultaneously asking for our presence , our attention and it happens also that all are important . You can't divide your body but you wanted to address all , you don't like anybody will be disappointed because you loved all. Take it slow , one at a time , they said slowly but surely ! Don't be affected by you're rushing and confused emotions , do first the most important then follow buy next important , you won't notice all are done with a happy heart ! You can friend , just don't forget to thank God for giving those opportunities to you and to pray for calm emotion.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
So true, somehow i should still be lucky and feel grateful that i have a job that keeps food on my table..and my family too.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
5 Mar 13
So sorry to hear about all the stress at work but it does come over in a while. You just need to take a time b to have a breather so you won't get into a situation where you would busy already as you have had enough of it already.
I'd say you are b just in time v though and at least try to log to mylot and just answer bs couple of discussions to somehow b help y you b relax a bit. Even if i was too busy then i always come here for a couple of discussion then i am back at work.
As you have said this shall pass too and soon b it'll just be another experience.
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
5 Mar 13
When I have had times like these I have found having some "me" time is really important. Take some time every morning before your crazy days starts to pamper yourself. Take a nice long hot bath. I tend to read the bible during these times as well to get me focused but if that doesn't interest you find a book on inspirational quotes. You would be a mazed at what 20 minutes of me time can do for your whole day and your outlook on it. I hope the stress ends soon for you just make sure to take care of yourself and the rest will follow.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
5 Mar 13
Well, I understand that all these sudden events, cause, to you strss.
However, you must know that I have several problems, even causing me stress.
As you know, I am mentally disabled 75%. This makes me sick (and therefore stressed).
Another problem that I face every day is my relationship with my younger brother. Although he's 11 years younger than me, is smart, bullying and arrogant. I know it sounds stupid, but I'm afraid of him! (and I am almost ashamed to say it!)
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
16 Mar 13
Hi,
i can understand your feelings. There is lot of work to be done and we have to face it.It is very stressful. But it is life. This month is the month of burden. I also undergone from this situation. Audit work exams of kids, hot season and so on. Couldn't understand what to do. But slowly all problems get solved and we get relieved from all these and feel very cool.
