Terrible!!!

I hate people, too, who stick their noses in others' business. The occasion I was the most outraged was in a shop, which I went into to look for a pair of jeans, where the topmodel-like skinny "I'm all better than you"-looking b*tch glanced at me, said cynically that they didn't have anything in my size, and then, starting ranting about how disgusting fat people were (when I'm not even like huge, I'm not unealthily, overly obese, I have some plus kilos, that's all), and how I should have stopped mucnhing on chips every single day while surfing on the couch. What? I was like... You don't have the right to tell me how to live. You earn your living from your customers, honey, so don't act like you're superior. And what if I'm "fat"? And what if I don't give a damn about becoming skinny? What if I'm fat because of an illness? (my case is more genetics, but stillI) How do you know whether I live a healthy life or eat junk food all day?... some people are just so full of themselves, and they think they have such a universal truth in their brains that everyone should her it...

There are many busybodies that feel they know all there is to know about how other people live their lives. I don`t accept anyone to do that, not even my mother. I think that we should do what we feel we want to if we are grown ups.I have a nice to whom for years her two grandmas told her that she should get married.

You are right you do have the right to your private life. I am not sure what happened here but I am sorry you are so upset. Sometimes people think what they say is funny and it does not come across that way when it is written. I guess I have been lucky because I have not had these issues here. I would suggest if you are having continuing problems that you just delete their posts to you and if you feel you are being harassed by anyone then talk to the support team here. Don't let a few people upset you. Just stay calm and ignore it. There are a lot of wonderful people here and that is who you should be focusing on. Good luck to you!

Hi Ryanong, how are you? Long time no see, I miss you so much but I've been busy with offline life. Got notification on email that you started a discussion, so I decided to drop by to say hello. Okay back to the topic, I understand what you feel. I used to get angry and bothered so much when people being nosy and keep asking about my private life especially my love life. But then I just shrugged and walked away, I dont care and I don't bother to reply to their question. They are just boring people who try to make their life sound so much better than others. Don't feed them just ignore them, showing your anger is gonna make them happy because their question is really giving you an affect, I think they enjoy your reaction that's why they keep asking same old boring question. I absolutely agree with you that we are the one who knows what is right for our life, if you think this is the best for you then do it. I have a job and almost finish my degree, that's make people in my life keep on repeating the same old boring question about marriage like "what else are you waiting for, go find a guy etc". But Im just too happy with myself and my achievements for this year, so I dont really notice they been asking same old boring question about me being a single person. And anyway Im not really a single anymore, but I just dont think about marriage or official relationship at this moment, I dont even introduce him to them. So they may might their own opinion about me, but I know my life better than anyone else. Stay cool Ryan and be happy with your life.

Hi ryanong I can understand this as i am going through the same. yes why do they bother so much its really terrible. My friends just keep on saying that i should get married now. And still many more questions which irritates me a lot. One of my friend even asked me ,as i can see you don;t have any problem in talking with boys then why are you not getting married.. They think that i am not get married because i dont like boys or something like that. which is complete b***t. I said that's not the problem at all. Let me live my life. I want my life like this as of now and i will marry when ever i want . And you people should not decide when i should get married. But the same again repeats after sometime as you know. I am just avoiding such people as of now.Lets see what happens in future.