How exactly do you quantify love.is it possible?

Kenya
March 6, 2013 3:40am CST
Lately I have been bothered by questions that have no simple answers.Apart from just trusting that a girl or a boy loves you,is there really a way to know for sure? I had a girlfriend who felt that i dint love her as much as i should and i was just surprised because in my opinion, I was doing my best.Maybe the interpretation of love just depends on how we were raised.So,how exactly do you know that somebody loves you and what can you do to show love to someone?
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@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
6 Mar 13
Trust is a big treasure into a relationship, it will hold for a year if it is intact between the two of you. How can you love if you don't trust a person? It is for you to know how to show your love to your girlfriend, maybe their is one thing that she want you to do for her to believe that you really love her. Some girls are like that, they don't feel the love of the guy if their is a one thing that is lucking. You should have to extend more of your best to show to her that you really love her. Just by their actions and words towards me i will already know that person loves me. If you will always combine the actions and the words and also trust you will do better.
@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
6 Mar 13
Just treat her like a princess, and everything will fall to its place.. that the simple secret how to love a girl.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
Even if you were not love as you wish with your parents,you could give the most appropriate love to your lover,or to someone you like to become your best of friends. Love is not meant to be felt by you by just what you like it to be,yet there are people who would like it that you were special,that you are treated so specially well and love them also was the only key to keep your affinity works.Our parents are the basic of these treatments,that through the years of correct cooperation in the family makes our love more the persons in the family.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
This is true. Love differs, it is never the same for all of us. I think I already shared it here in mylot through other discussion. When we are loved, we are loved. But we just are not loved the way we want to be loved. Our boyfriends or girlfriends often say we are not giving enough and we know what is true. Sometimes too much watching these tv series and romantic movies have gotten into our heads and us girls would be waiting for our guys to be the Knight, the perfect guy, the mr. Sweet guy. But they are not even close to reality of true love is. If your girlfriend feels that way, maybe you can talk with her and l let her feel and see that you think about what she thinks and you v want to make b sure too that she is okay and happy with you.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
6 Mar 13
We all need to feel that we are loved if we are in a relationship. To some it's enough to know, others need to see it (some prove). Some are happy with a smile full of love, others do need to hear the words: I love you every hour of the day. Taking someone for granted is not a sign of loving someone. I think at the moment your partner feels neglected of feels like taken for granted you should have a closer look at your relationship. It's not Always about what you are doing wrong but what your partner needs. Having a close relationship means you have to work on it every day. If you are not willing to do that, to count with the needs of your partner you better end the relationship. So what you need to do is to get eachother know very well, then you will learn what the other person needs to see or feel or hear.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
6 Mar 13
Hi, Have some patience. She will realize your true love after some time. I have mentioning some thoughts which suits for your love. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return. Just wait for it grow in their heart but it doesn't be content that it grow in your.