Is any way to block someone we hate to respond in our discussion?
By AkamaruKei
@AkamaruKei (5219)
Malaysia
March 6, 2013 4:48am CST
At here i hate a few of people. They treated other like idiot and act smart. For those new member think they special member, no member at here special. Luckily i still have some good friend. They make me smile and laugh. Thanks to my best friend. By the way it look like we cannot block someone we hate to respond in our discussion.
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28 responses
@Laurenlynn (715)
• Canada
7 Mar 13
Hi Akamarukei I am sorry to hear that someone was rude to you. I have only been here a couple of weeks and I am really enjoying getting to know everyone slowly, you had mentioned new member who think they are special I know that is not me, I am far from special,(I hope that made you laugh).Try and cheer up and I hope things get better for you.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
7 Mar 13
So happy to hear about good experiences in myLot, especially newer members like yourself.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 13
Ha i mean about me. Before this i think they special but when i search about them they are nothing. I only 4 month at here but i can see a lot type of people.
@deazil (4730)
• United States
7 Mar 13
No Aka, no blocking. But you can ignore anyone who's rudeness or sarcasm you don't appreciate. I see a few people here have responded that they understood and have seen this or it has happened to them before. I've seen it as well. I've seen a new member ask a question and be spoken to rudely and/or sarcastically for no apparent reason except to belittle the person or make the responder look smart or funny. It's a juvenile way to behave. Especially to someone who's new and doesn't realize that they might be joking. And sarcastic humor has a time and place. Some people don't know enough to make the distinction between the right and wrong time. So, ignore whoever it is and forget them. Uh, I hope it isn't me.
@deazil (4730)
• United States
9 Mar 13
I didn't think you meant me. I was kidding you. Some people do have the mentality of a 5 year old and then again I've known some 5 year olds that show more intelligence than some adults I know. Idiots are everywhere, Aka. Your only good choice is to ignore them and know that you have enough character to rise above retaliation and behaving in a similar manner.
Hey, I see you have a new avatar. I like the colors, I'm not crazy about the hair, the bangs. Who is it?
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 13
Haha you right! I think some 5 years old kid smarter than them so i confused they in which category? Yes idiot is everywhere but very funny when idiot try to show they smart. Well the new avatar i use is mitsu from a band vneu. He fashion style look cool right?
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 13
Deazil you always give a smart responses. Not act smart like some people here. They think they smart but they not. For me nothing wrong if someone want to ask something at here. The person who is give rude responses to them is idiot. Haha funny? When someone make a joke and prank other people at wrong time or like to do that i think that person have something wrong. I not see at here it have some people below 5 years old. Only a kid like to doing something like that. Dont worry that is not you.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
7 Mar 13
oh, we cannot please everyone so I understand if you don't like some people. Discussions or participation here are not just to agree but also to disagree. Giving opinions or insights is not just to make you feel good but to make you mature in the way you react.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
8 Mar 13
Point taken. It is indeed bad to be rude. Just ignore them I guess. It won't hurt if you don't reply to them. Don't let them get into your nerves.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
8 Mar 13
We can give disagree opinion but that not mean we can become rude to other people right? That show we not matured when we give opinion like that.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 13
It hurt me if i reply to them because they very like if i lose my mind and angry. Calm down, relax and ignore them is a good way.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
6 Mar 13
Some people are rude and try to force their opinion on others I dont like it but we have to accept it . I know exactly what you mean and even though I have way more people I like here than ones I dont like but we have to deal with all kind of people even offline .
You will be ok just ignore anyone that you feel is hating on you , have a good day
@guojia000 (4)
• Armenia
7 Mar 13
i have to deal with all kinds of people and things both online and offline no matter i like them or hate them. have a good day
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 13
Yeah i like most people at here and only a little bit i dont like. I just want to ignored people i dont like. It is good solution than i quarrel with them.
@nilike (13)
• Zhengzhou, China
3 May 13
@guojia000 enjoy yourself.this is my first comment.like the first message to the galaxy.
@pals101 (2010)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
I think for you to be able to have a great discussion, you should always listen to everyone. It may be negative or positive comments, everyone has the right to express their own opinions,feelings and ideas in here. That is what mylot is.. if you only want comments that you like then its not a real discussion at all. You cannot please everyone and that is the reality in this world. Just learn to adapt and accept challenges..
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 13
No i not hate if someone want to give negative responses. I just hate when someone is to rude and not respect other when give their responses.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
6 Mar 13
It is sad that there are people in the world that can be rude and disrespective some have forgot that basic morals need to be applied and a little matters should apply here as any other place yes we have the freedom of speach but a little tacked is in order have a great day
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 13
Yeah it so sad because in this world it have some rude people. I dont know if any people can change their attitude to become good. By the way i think some people can change some will not.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
6 Mar 13
any one can change they just have to have the desire to do so and sadly they just dont
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 13
I think that very hard to change someone which is have rude attitude.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
7 Mar 13
You can't block them, but you can report them.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Mar 13
Oh, are YOU the topic of the discussion, Lambie dear?
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 13
Hehe i dont like to report about something. I will ask my friend to do that. I lazy to write a reason.
@jugsjugs (12967)
•
7 Mar 13
There will always be people like that not just on here, but in real life as well.You should either ignore all the discussions that they start, or responses that they do, or grin and bare it, face it, you have not got to see them, or even live with them and for every nasty thing that is put, there will always be more nice things put by many more nice people.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
7 Mar 13
Unless they're harasing here unappropriately or breaking guidelines then I would have to say I think you're right and I agree with it. Ignore their things or grin and bare it as you say
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 13
Yes jugsjugs i not only see a type of people like that at here but also in my real life. I try to friend with them but i cannot. I dont want to quarrel with them so ignored them is a good solution.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
7 Mar 13
I do not think that there is a way to block anyone from posting and commenting to your discussion here on mylot. As long as guidelines are not violated the post will be included. Everyone is entitled to their views and opinions. We may not always agree with the views of others but we have to let minds speak freely. Perhaps if you are disagreeble with a , take time to really see what eing said. It could just be miscommunication.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
7 Mar 13
I get an idea that this may be a repeated offense on the discussion starter from the sounds of it. I don't know for sure.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 13
I agree about what you say. I can accept if people disagree about what i share here as long he/she not rude, treated other like idiot and not respect other people.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Mar 13
Do you really hate someone here? What did they do?
Well, anyway there is no block feature here but when someone is very rude to me here I just ignore them. I get tired of being treated badly, and they will get tired of doing it if they never get a reaction from it...
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
8 Mar 13
No not mean i hate them forever. If they can change their attitude i can accept them again.
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
7 Mar 13
hi Akamarukei, I have been here almost 2 years and I have
encountered only 1-2 persons whose response were a little
harsh, but I would not say that I hate them..I really think
that word hate is such a devastating word..It just takes so
much energy to hate someone..
Don't give anyone that much control of your feelings, you
have the choice of dislike for them, ignore them or let them
get into you head and cause riff raff,,,I don't hsve any idea
of who you are talking about but you need to take control
of the situtation..It will be ok..I have to say that most
of the people here are acknowledgeable and understanding and
nice also...hitch your star to another wagon....
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 13
I hope you not mean about me. Sometime i get angry because i very pain. I cannot control myself. I dont want to be rude to other. Hehe the person i talk about is secret. Only me and some my best friend know who is that person i mean. Dont worry you not in the list of person i hate.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
It's not good to harbor such negative feelings toward people. I've been around here long but I don't hate anyone. I do disagree with some people here but with reasonable discussions, we can all get along fine.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
I see. If you still find them unacceptable, you can always ignore them or if they are crossing the line, don't hesitate to report them to the admin.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 13
No that not mean i hate them forever. If they can change their attitude and respect other i can accept them.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
7 Mar 13
No there is no way to block any one in myLot. If you're being harrased you can report it. If they're being rude you don't always have to respond. Other than that I hope they'll not bother you any more. Sorry to hear there are members who are treating you bad and you want to block their responses.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
7 Mar 13
Some are very disrespectful. All we can do is more on from them and not give them the satisfaction.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 13
I dont know what to do. I dont want to quarrel with them. I know i'm not smart someone will very easily to bring me down. It is better i avoid to quarrel with them and ignored them.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 13
At here all people can respond in our discussion even they not our friend. I not friend with the person i dont like but they still can respond in my discussion. That why i hope someday it will have a setting to block someone to post responses in our discussion.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
8 Mar 13
No, their is no way to block someone. If there is someone here you are really having an issue with you could report them. But in general, I am glad most everyone is good here, and quite helpful as well. All I can say is just continue to come here and have fun and tend to ignore those who are bothering you. Eventually they leave here, or made to leave.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 13
Yes most people at here good and helpful just some people is rude. I have a friend which is always help me. That why i still continue and have fun at here. I want to ignore people which is annoying.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 13
Hi Aka,
maybe this place is a great place for to learn how to deal with someone you don't like
This site truly a trial for me how to act with dignity even I hate someone so bad
and how to cool my mind when I see a flame comments and responses which set me in my fire
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 13
Well when we see that situation we should calm down and relax. They like to see we angry. When we angry we out of mind. When we ignore them they will be angry because we do them like they not exist.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
26 Mar 13
There is no way that we are able to block people from responding to our discussions, which I do think is a slight problem with the mylot interface. However, I do think that in most situations that it is highly unlikely that someone that we don't like is going to respond to our discussions because there are a lot of discussions started here every day and unless they are our friends on here, it is quite unlikely that they will see the discussions that we've started.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 13
Yeah it don't have a setting like that. All people can respond at here because discussion is open even they are person we not like.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
There are some people here who gets nasty in responsing to our discussions or to our posts. Unfortunately, we can't block them but you can hit the - button or unfriend them. Maybe you could send them a private message telling that you had been hurt
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
10 Mar 13
For those like to doing this i think they not care when we say his/her words hurt us and i not friend with any rude people.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
6 Mar 13
There is no way to block posts for topics are open to every member of Mylot. I am sorry you have had to experience any thing that was not appealing to you. There are differences between members and some as you say like to act smart and put down other members with gusto. They might be full of themselves. However, perhaps we need to keep in mind that it may not be all the time this occurs with them and that the majority of people are kind, helpful and respectful of others.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
6 Mar 13
Hmm i see there no setting to block someone at here. In fb i have block someone who is very rude to me. So what i can do at here just ignore them and act like they not exist.
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
6 Mar 13
Yeah they don't exist.
I think rudeness is sometimes effective for the one that delivers the rudeness and sometimes not if ignored or if the person that is receiving the rudeness is not touched by it.
There are various degrees of it though and I've had to deal with people that are much more rude than others and have it occur face to face not only inside a text message --- speaking of real life.
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
10 Mar 13
i think you noticed by now that he'll be there whenever the discussion is about mylot.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
10 Mar 13
I'm not focus to 1 person that why i say they.
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