How to be a mommy...
By giex22
@giex22 (273)
Cebu, Philippines
March 6, 2013 9:06am CST
When you know that you will become a mother soon, and that your responsibility will getting bigger and its for you to choose if you want it or not. Some women will be nervous if they will know that they are pregnant, others will be happy 'coz its a blessing and it comes the decision all of a sudden and of course to your partner. If ever your partner/bf will say that "I AM NOT READY" what will you feel? Would you ever think to abort it or not?
3 responses
@sheillaG0623 (171)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
8 years ago, i've been in to same situation, but never ever thought of killing the baby, i fear God so much, and I know that God has better plans in my life that is why He gave me a baby.
and then I realize becoming a mother is a very challenging job yet very fulfilling. a gift from God that can never be replaced by anything in this world.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
7 Mar 13
So true killing your own son/daughter is not acceptable yet you must face the reality that you should bear the child for the sake that it is a gift given by God. Everything has its own purpose like having a baby that is not in time but we will always know their where always a plan ahead unto us. :)
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Mar 13
I think most women are nervous and excited the first time around! It is a normal feeling when pregnant with your first child.
As for the father of the baby saying their not ready, I also feel this is normal as well. They will learn and figure out what it means to be a father when their little one is born.
I would never get an abortion for any reason. Even if I could not take care of the baby, there are plenty of families out there who would love a child more than anything. Why not make someone's dream come true?
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
7 Mar 13
Very true my friend, it will always occur at that time but their are also instances that the father will not actually perform as a father and that they just abandoned the girl during this stage, and how sad it is. Babies are angels who would come into our lives and it should be taking care for.
@ctryhnny (3460)
• United States
6 Mar 13
I am against abortion and just because the father doesn't think he's ready that's his problem. I brought up 3 kids on my own and it's a bittersweet experience. I was happy each time I found out I was pregnant.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
7 Mar 13
You are right it doesn't mean that the father is not ready then you will end up nothing, it is his lost and not you. You are so brave to have those kids on your own though it hurts to be left by the father but still you manage to stand to your lovely kids. It so good of you to think that you are against abortion.
