..he started liking me..
By subhojit10
@subhojit10 (7375)
India
March 6, 2013 11:12am CST
Hey guys, i would like to share an honest piece of news that had happened with me. The day i decided to work for the magazine, every one in that organization were happy to welcome me but there was one guy who was the chief editor who I felt was not much happy to see me working for the magazine.
i felt he had doubts over my capabilities n talent since I was well dressed and was wearing a stylish outfit that day. May be he thought that I wont cooperate anyone and would only do show off. After some days when i submitted my first assignment, he was the one who started talking about my flaws even though i could not figure out any. But still i preferred to stay calm as i was determined that i will win his heart by my work n dedication. he used to compare my work with my fellow mates n was asking to change the style of my writing completely. Slowly my colleagues n our founder of the magazine started praising my work n the regularity that i maintain in submitting in assignments. One day when he was loaded with work, he did not find any one besides him and then he called me up and said that he wanted my help to deposit the documents so that the magazine can be published on time. I did not waste a single second and helped him very much and since then he has become fond of my work dedication and assignments that wherever he goes, he keeps talking n praising about me. I felt that i was successful in changing his mind through my actions.
Now he has started liking me very much n we enjoy working with each other. i hope our relationship flourishes in the future.
What r your thoughts about this guys? have u ever won anyone's heart by your actions? Please do share your thoughts!
5 responses
@celleDJ406 (196)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
YES! It feels good! It relieves you of stress, it makes you want to wake up in the morning and rush to work and aim not to be late, it encourages you to work harder. Be reminded though that we cannot please everybody, so be ready still to meet people who's going to put you down. By being ready means, hold on to that good attitude and continue to work hard to deliver the best results! Two thumbs up for you! :)
@leateagee (3667)
• China
6 Mar 13
I totally agree. Nobody can make you work harder than your own drive to be successful. Having a great attitude towards work and life is a good thing to carry. 
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
11 Mar 13
@celleDJ406-
Thanks a ton for sharing your valuable response. Yes u are absolutely right, after changing his mindset i felt much better than before as i felt as if positive vibes were around us and this does not end here for me as i will continue to quell challenges and change the mindset of other people who would show such behavior like my editor.
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
6 Mar 13
Glad to hear he changed. it would not have been fun working there had he not liked you. What kind of magazine do you work for??
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
11 Mar 13
Thanks a ton for sharing your valuable response. Yes u are absolutely right, even i felt that if the same mindset continues then i wont be able to work with him comfortably and hence i took up the challenge and changed his mindset. Besides, i work for a monthly magazine that covers the interviews of all the dignified personalities of my state exclusively.
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@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
11 Mar 13
Well thanks for your words. Our magazine has a website but unfortunately it has no online edition as we wanted our readers to read it in person. But if u wish i can send u the scanned copies of some of the inspiring interviews that i have taken. U can get benefited after reading their interviews. Our magazine is an all interview exclusive magazine.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Mar 13
wow thats great. Does your magazine have an online edition there?
@leateagee (3667)
• China
6 Mar 13
Oh I feel so happy for you. The chemistry between you too i skinda good. Just don't expect too much from what you are experiencing now. Don't pretend. Just be who you are. He has to like you for who you are not for who he wants you to be. Never change just to please people. Have a greater day every day! @subhojit10 (7375)
• India
11 Mar 13
Thanks a ton for sharing your valuable response. Yes u are absolutely right, the feeling is something different and as u had mentioned, i will try to be myself and i did not change myself to please him rather i changed his mindset to get pleased with my work and dedication so that he never concludes about anyone at the first glance and meeting.
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@teotimoponcerosacena (1552)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
It is early to judge and conclude just keep observing. I hope all will be well for you
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
11 Mar 13
Thanks a ton for sharing your valuable response. Well sir, you are absolutely right, we should never conclude about someone so quickly, what i was trying to say here through my discussion is that i had tried to change his perception that he had about me. I tried to portray here that we can turn the tables in our favor not with our words but with our actions and dedication and hard work.
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@markIT (134)
• Philippines
6 Mar 13
Hi subhojit10, all I can say is love moves in mysterious way. lol! That's true, there are certain times that somebody or others are mean at first. Maybe because they don't know you yet, or can we say, that's their first move? lol! Anyway, as what I have understand in what you have shared, it's really a good start, and who knows, some day, your relationship will flourish. =) And maybe you can share it with us, mylotters. =) Just be yourself and always enjoy the moment, and time will tell, or out of nowehere in the middle of your conversation, unexpected and surprise confession will arise. ;) Cheers for that subhojit10!
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
11 Mar 13
Thanks a ton for sharing your valuable response. Yes u are absolutely right, most of us have the common habit of concluding and framing thoughts about someone right from the first glance and meeting and that paves way for misunderstanding but we have to capitalize on this and turn it in our favor. As u said i hope our relationship flourishes so that we can both work for the welfare of our organization.
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