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People have various reasons for cheating. And most of the time, it is just the sudden urge for the thrill of it.

Even i dont understand this cheating thing. I think they are being in a relationship just to show their partner and the rest of the world but also enjoy with the other partner. I dont know what to do they get aftr cheating and making others life hell. I am not being cheated nor did i cheat but i can understand the circumstances.

i think the reason why people cheat is to have their cake and eat it, too. they want to have the security of a relationship, while being able to have benefits of a single person. to me, there is no other reason for it.

I don't know, maybe they like something that is wild and uncontrollable. I have no idea on that. I don't like cheating and will never do that to my partner.

We ( ladies ) are very unfortunate to be surrounded by unfaithful guys.. I hope they will be able to realize that they are hurting someone..

Cheating is a big headache it makes us fool. And it hurts a lot when you found out that your partner is cheating on you. I don't really understand why they're doing like that. It is so shame to them who always cheating to their partners.

I wish I knew the reason for cheating myself. So many men and women do this and end up hurting so many people in the process. I have heard from certain people that they get bored very easy and want a change so they go for it. I think instead of going for it leave the marriage or the girlfriend and go on with your life. Instead of hurting so many people along the way. Making people think you really love them while you are cheating with another person is disgusting and tacky.

People cheat for various reasons, but for the most part it stems from not feeling fulfilled in the relationship they are in. That's not to say that they do not love the other person (They can, in their own way), but that they are not getting something from the relationship that they need at an emotional/psychological level. Sometimes it IS physical. It really depends on the person and the relationship. Serial cheaters tend to have internal conflicts that will never be solved. One-time cheaters are usually a result of a problem within a relationship.

Several reasons exist for cheating. Scientifically it is proven that cheating is found in genes. So if a parent carries it, the child will definitely get it. However, genes don't determine our character 100 percent. Many diseases that we have in gene might not really attack us at all especially if we take precaution against them. Astrology also has pinpointed that certain aspects of someone's natal chart can compel a person to cheat. Environment can also be blamed. I know some cultures where the definition of cheating does not exist at all.

it is so common in life to get cheated and its just part and parcel of the game,dont feel for it

This is indeed a common topic to discuss and i would really not do that to my partner and it's not cool to be found.We can all find our suitable partners and we can talk about and we can choose to break up but never cheat.This is not a good word to me.

Nowadays, a lot of people have the courage to cheat but don't have the courage to tell the truth. I don't know why they are like that, maybe they're just cheaters. They don't deserve someone better. They deserve someone like them so they will know how it feels like to be cheated.

The men are dawgs and cheat as an adventure that sit. nd because they can cheat.

Hi sheillaG0623...I'm not really sure why do men and women cheat on their partners. However, I believe that others do it to make themselves feel like an "achievement" having different partners at a time. Others also do it "to search" for his/her destined man/woman. Others do cheat "believing that others are doing it" and "it is part of the trend." However, the sad part of cheating is when you decide to stop cheating and take the current relationship seriously, you become a victim of cheating and realize how painful it is to be cheated.

I agree with you. Break up is better than cheating activity. We must be loyal to our partners and never try to cheat them. If you are not happy with your current partner simply you can keep distance from them and find a proper person for your life.

there are many reason why they do that or maybe they still looking for other excitement that they not found on their previous partner

Hi sheillaG0623, you're right. That's very common especially for those who left their love ones and the other is working overseas, but I am not saying all. Because I know someone who is married and he is chatting to other woman and he is using different facebook account, and what he just told me is that he is is looking for friendship. lol! Well, personally, what I can say is cheating is always a choice. In relationship, one of important secrets is the contentment. If you're contented, happy and you value you're relationship, even there are lot of temptation out there, you are not affected because you are committed to your chosen one. As long as you have open communication also, then I think every thing will be in a good track even you will undergo in any difficulties. Thanks