What are the things you do to make yourself busy?
By AngelaMarie
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
Philippines
March 7, 2013 12:44am CST
My husband just left home few hours ago for his seminar out of the country, we both decided not to accompany him to the airport to prevent any crying moments/scene there. I am alone here at home and I already miss my husband although I have some things to do make myself busy through cooking, baking and be more productive in my online job while his away for a while. What are the things you do to make yourself busy while your alone at home and your husband/partner is away? Have a great day!
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39 responses
@else22 (4317)
• India
7 Mar 13
To be frank,I am already busy with my business from morning to evening.By evening I am left extremely tired,but sitting idle watching tv is not in my nature.If I sit idle,I feel bore.So I either go out on a long walk so that I may remain fit.or,if I don't feel like walking,I start reading any from my choicest of books.When it's a holiday and banks are closed,I study Sanskrit.For the last four days I have started studying this classical language.My wife asks me to take a nap to avoid tiredness,but if I sleep,I would have to spend a sleepless night.I participate in Mylot in the morning before leaving for my business.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Oh your such a very busy person and hard working, how i wish i can do the same.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
10 Mar 13
It is really boring and frustrating if we have nothing to do. But we need those pauses and slack off a bit to have a breather for us to have renewed energy the following business days. Thanks
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Surfing the net is also a good way to gather new information and help us to update ourselves what happenings in our surroundings. Like you internet surfing and playing computer games help me also to keep myself busy when i am alone.
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@mentalward (14690)
• United States
7 Mar 13
My husband pesters me so much when he's home that I really enjoy the times when he is not here.
I get so much more done when he's gone than when he's here. I never have to think of things to keep me busy, there is always so much I want to do. I don't normally have enough time to do everything I want so I take full advantage of my time when my husband is not here.
I cook, bake, do craftwork, gardening (when the weather permits) or just playing with my indoor plants, I have a small business that I work on so much better when I'm alone, I spend more time with my two dogs, watch whatever I want on TV, read books I've put off because there wasn't enough time before, all kinds of things.
My husband was home all day yesterday because of a bad snowstorm we had and I was unable to get anything done. I'm so glad he's back at work today!
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
I always envy those people who have lots of talents like you, me i only do internet surfing, cooking, baking and sleeping while my husband is not here. Most of the time i love him to stay here at home because he help to do the household chores.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
hi bhelen,
I can say my life is kinda busy with many stuffs to do everyday actually I never run out of errands to do specially if Mom is around .
Keep your self busy here in mylot
happy mylotting
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Yes, i will keep myself busy here in mylot than thinking my husband.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
7 Mar 13
Hi bhebelen!
Being separated from our love ones is really hard but we have to do this thing for our future.
Personally, I don't find any boring moment when I started working online. I am always busy. Staying with myLot alone can make so much of our time. So just keep on participating and you will not get bored anymore.
Have a nice day!
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Since this early morning I do my best to work online to make myself busy until i fell asleep and forget to think about my husband. Now, that I am awake and do not know what to do i think much better to stay in mylot and enjoy participating in each discussion .thanks
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
All of this are really makes you busy and i know it make you happy too, right?
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
7 Mar 13
I like to learn something new, especially a new language.
To do the things well, usually require a lot of time, attention, energy and even money, so I will focus on the thing for I want to get more than I have paid. So I will be too busy to think about another things.
Now as I am new in workplace, to forget the stress, I try to work hard and forget the unhappiness being a newcomer.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Wow this is great idea...sometimes we used to things many ideas were we got confuse most fo the time but focusing your goal to earn money for sure you can achieve it. thanks
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Mar 13
When I am at home and my husband isn't there I usually do the housework first and then I read, spend time online or spend the time in my crafts room. I borrow many books at the library so I always have new books to read. A really intereting novel is a great way to keep me busy. On the internet I always able to find something to do. I visit my favourite sites, watch videos on YouTube and chat with my friends on Facebbook. I also like to visit online galleries or other websites about art.
Sometimes I decide to spend the time in my crafts room. I am always working at some projects there for instance drawings, paintings, handmade cards or decoupage. I use pictures from old magazines in my art and when I have some free time I go through the old magazines and pick out the pictures that I can use.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
I can see that your very artistic and creative person, i can do some crafts but not drawing and paintings because i am not a gifted like you.
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
7 Mar 13
Missing someone does leave that void to fill in our lives. I find that doing the chores we have put off and spending time with others can fill that void and keep ourselves busy. Before we know it our loved ones will be back and we will not have to miss them any longer.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Your right my dear, few day from now my husband will be back and were be together again and I will not miss him anymore, unless if he has another seminar or business trip out of the country.
@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
7 Mar 13
It is good sometimes to be alone from time to time.. to balance life..
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Usually I only 1 day off for myself but now that my husband is away i have the whole week to spent time with myself and to go out with friends and relatives.
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@shaina228 (119)
• Japan
7 Mar 13
Being alone is all I ever dream. Given a chance like you maybe will be a big celebration for me...Lol I will soon go to spa, have my hair treatment and full body massage.
Or if I feel to stay at home I will sure grab my books, or have a movie marathon while having my favorite hawaiian pizza.
But before anything else I will make sure the house is clean, finished the laundry etc.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Hi Shaina, i know your very busy taking care of your family and has a little time for yourself, how i wish you can able to take a break even for awhile to pamper yourself too. I like Hawaiian pizza too but for the meantime I am going to enjoy this nachos and popcorn while watching TV series.
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@asokavaradhana (257)
• India
7 Mar 13
Well,there are many ways to get busy.But it all depends on you and your interests and aspirations.First of all,you told you are trying to get busy online.Try online opportunities to make some income.Keep a target on things and work towards those goals.It would be very challenging.Explore new ways to earn money online.Plus explore new things that can be done at home.Water plants or grow a new hobby.Even turning attention to fitness and health is great way to keep busy.There are many who does not care of health.But keeping new routines in life definitely helps.For me, i spend sometime online and health and also make investments and look onto the plans.It really keeps me on toes and there are days i have felt 24 hours are not enough to get things moving.Do not over do things and come to a point of too much overloading.This could lead to frustration and ultimately to breakdown and laziness.It has happened to me a few times.But the aim should be to achieve some goal and not something easily achievable.That should keep anyone busy for a good amount of time.Remember time and tide does not wait for anyone.Make every second and day count towards something productive which will help you in long term.Thanks!
@Adval2013 (436)
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7 Mar 13
I never run out of chores. It seems that I will forever be a busy housewife. However, whenever I have idle moments, I read ebooks, play my guitar or keyboard, read my bible, chat or call loved ones using viber or skype. And yes, I also do the things that you usually do like baking cookies (especially my favorite oatmeal cookies), experiment on recipes and write or blog. I also do scrapbooking occasionally and watch TV series.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Wow you can play guitar and keyboard i envy you, i always wanted to learn to play those instruments but i think i have no gift in terms of music. Oatmeal cookies and chocolate cookies are my favorite to bake because it healthy and easy to bake. Thanks
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@btoto85 (7)
• Azerbaijan
7 Mar 13
Happens to me often cause my wife works in an office nearby and I work from home as a translator. So usually when I can't "get rid" of our 2 year old son to work home alone I have to spend time with him. He just won't let me my touch my laptop :) So I usually read a book while he watches his cartoons or just plays around. I also enjoy preparing something tasty for diner. It lets me and my boy work in a company and have fun + my wife won't have to cook when she comes back home and it will make her happy just sit back and have a rest :)
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
How i wish that i have a child too where i can read and watch cartoon with her/him most of the time.
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@banban (601)
• China
7 Mar 13
I think there are many things that can keep me busy and from boring.
One is reading. I like reading books on Kindle. Currently I have several books ready to be read. One of them is entitled "Influence". Reading brings me a lot of fun since I can see more from it.
Another thing is doing exercise. Usually I gain more weight during winter, so it is necessary to loss some weight for the coming summer. Besides I feel that it makes me healthier.
Recently I'm interested in learning foreign languages such as Japanese. Since I love watching Japanese animations very much, I kind of want to know its language.
Well, I just become lazy sometimes and watching moves or TVs is so nice for me at those times.
My BF and I stay together for most of the time. When we're in different places I try something I'm interested in and have fun as well.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Leaning foreign languages such as Japanese is good idea and fun too, few years ago i learned how to speak Japanese too and it take a many months before I got fluent with the help of my sister and Japanese friend. i love watching anime too when i am studying their language because it really help me to pronounce and understand the words.
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
7 Mar 13
Airport goodbyes are really dramatic. Good thing you decided not to send him. Well now that he is not home and you have some time for yourself. If I were you I woould pamper myself like have manicure and pedicure by myself. Do home facial treatment. I think I would continue my cross-stitching. I would do some general cleaning of the house. Maybe bake something. Then call my friends and go out with them. But now that I have a child, I would stay at home, look after my daughter. Maybe I'll just ask my friends to come over to our house.
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
I just arrived home from non-stop shopping with my husband cousins and we had a great time. It's been 3 months when the last time we seen each other, my husband arrange the meeting for us and I am very thankful to him. Before I left this afternoon I clean the house and sent all the dirty clothes and blankets in the laundry shop downstairs, now i have nothing to do but watching TV series.
Thanks. Have a good night!
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
9 Mar 13
I spend nearly every free minute at the sewing machine, whether the man of the house is here or not. Since he doesn't drive, he's always here, or I'm taking him somewhere.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
10 Mar 13
I used to make all my clothes and those of our children when they were small. However, that is now history. I still mend when necessary but spend most of my time making quilts, which are given to charity. I have a phone with speaker by the sewing machone so that I can talk to my friends and keep on sewing.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
10 Mar 13
Wow! That's wonderful, making quilt for charity, that's very kind of you.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
10 Mar 13
I see that your a good sewer, i can sew to using my hand and sewing machine but i only use them when i need to fix some clothes and doing curtains.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
I agree with you my dear friend, there's a lot of things to do alone. NOw that my husband is away i need to take advantage this opportunity, after all he told that i can do anything i want as long it makes me happy. Today I went out shopping with my husband cousins and tomorrow were going to watch movies and they going to sleep over here at home. Thanks
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@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Well my husband is away from us now for two months because he was assigned in another place and i was really sad in the first week thankfully there's my son so I am busy as well to take care of my son.. I keep my self busy with household chores and when I have free time I usually do my online activities.. I also want to be productive as well so I will not think of my husband being far away from us ..
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Making ourselves busy through cooking, household chores and online job really help us to make our mind busy and not to think too much to our husband who far away. Thanks
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@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
Wow party is a good idea! Actually my husband cousin will come over here tomorrow and they going to stay until Monday morning, for going to have a great time together.
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