Love changes with time

your right love does change over time some times it can change over many great years or it can happen over night mine was over night for the most part you have a great day

The quality and intensity of love that we show others differ as we grow old. And that is because as we grow older, the love also matures. At my age now, love for me should be long-lasting. But this should not be based on the physical appearance or with the things that one can give me. But just by giving value to the time that I give and all the care that I provide him means a lot more.

You are correct when everything is getting or turning out towards modernization even today's love are changing. The way in the olden days people use to love each other for example hiding or keeping it secret with their family members and friends today's modern love is open.

Love is like night and day. Can change like that. if its true love id hope that doesnt ever happen.

As a teenager, when you fall in love you think it's absolute, perfect and will last forever. Nothing matters, all obstacles should be overcomed for the sake of that love. He/She is your soul-mate, and even if your soul mate doesn't love you back, you know he/she will someday. And you are prepared to struggle, no matter what it takes. When you grow up, you know that earth have a lot of people, and love is just a connection. You know that the story with an unique soul mate is obsolete. Your love is more rational. You look also for common values, not just mad attraction. You look for somebody with whom you will be able to form a family. For some, money are important, but I don't see it's a rule. It happened in my case, and I don't see it as bad. In the contrary, it's a normal evolution. It's about finding yourself and realizing you should not give away your sould to something, just share a life.

Love no matter how intense it might be during the first stage really changes over time. Why not? At first you built it with lots of expectations and high hopes that its going to be forever. But as you stay together you will soon discover a lot of new things about that person. Some maybe tolerable some may be not. You are two different people who come from different directions with different orientation then you decide to stay together. There would be broken promises, expectations painfully not met and every thing that puts the relationship into some kind of trouble. The question is, how strong is that love for each other. Love is a commitment, embracing each others' differences is a key note here for that love to survive.

It's true that what we want for our soon to be partner will have to have a stable work financially. It's more like for practical reasons. But in my case, that is not all true. My partner is not somewhat fortunate financially, but I see the qualities in him that had me falling for him. If we are basing on love financially, the tendency is that we might get involved in an affair, since the person you are with is not exactly the person you want to be with. We just stick to that person since we need the money, which is sad.

Thanks for this discussion, most confuse love with lust, as people get aged the concept of love changes

I do agree. As you get more mature, you are going to love in another way - deeper, more committed, less butterflies and pink sunglasses, more true trust and caring about the other more deeply. Even in a relationship, love changes with time. First, you get mesmerised by the other's looks and glimpses of personality, you're over the moon, you get giggly... and later it forms to a deeper kind of love, when you love the person for who they are.

its definitely right, its happen most of the time only measures our love for our partner, but I think If you truly love someone and you can take a risk for her sake I think that even time cant make a change with your feelings. that's what I think now for my partner.