what "He" think actually ?

@maurya83 (923)
India
March 7, 2013 12:19pm CST
Its 20th week of my pregnancy and i got a little baby- bump on my tummy..I noticed many times, my hubby staring on my tummy and smiling and the expressions on his face are somewhat unusual and strange at those moments (he looks funny actually) :D I dont know what he thinks at that time :? I wonder, what actually goes on his mind? Do all men do or think like him?
6 responses
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
13 Mar 13
I think he is feeling rather proud, that he is helped create this miracle inside your tummy, and he's probably wondering whether it's a boy or a girl, it is said that most men actually want a daughter, whereas women sometimes prefer a boy. I think he is really excited, and somewhat nervous, I think you can take his expressions as pure contentment!
@maurya83 (923)
• India
16 Mar 13
Yes its pure contentment, feeling of being a father very soon makes him happy and more responsible these days..sometimes he imagines about possible funny situations which may take place in near future like we have to awake for whole night, have to change nappies all the time etc.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Mar 13
Oh, isn't that exciting? I still remember when I felt my first 'bump'. I used to see footprints sometimes. She was such a trapeze artist! Your hubby is probably nearly as excited as you are. It is ,afterall, happening to your body not his. Men are funny. Wait til the little one is born.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
12 Mar 13
Yes, its exciting, you saw her footprints :O I heard from some moms here also..I just started feeling his/her moves.. :)
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
7 Mar 13
He is just liking and observing the change in you. You are just turning from a sexy lady to a mommy type fatty lady. I think thats why he laughs sometimes. As there is some one else going to come and share his lady with in next few weeks and months. Happy mylotting.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
8 Mar 13
mommy type fatty lady? :D they also can look beautiful and my hubby says that i am getting more pretty. yes, he is excited for his baby, may be he think about the possible changes in our life...
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
7 Mar 13
It's probably the disbelief that he has actually co-created a human being. I guess some would feel so surprised with it even if we know that it is what happens when couples become intimate. Your husband is excited, I am sure.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
8 Mar 13
yes, he is excited. He has so many plans for our baby and sometimes he talks about the possible changes in our life and his friends experiences about being father..
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
8 Mar 13
maury, I think the right thing to do was to ask your hubby why the strange look on his face when he looks at your tummy.. Asking other men still may not let you know why HE is doing so..just ask him you may be surprised...
@maurya83 (923)
• India
8 Mar 13
Yes i can ask him, even i do understand to some extent, sometimes it feels good and fun to share something with friends and to know their opinions..
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
8 Mar 13
I think you should be glad he's like this. He is just so glad to have a baby... especially if it is his first one. There's no experience and feeling even similar to having and expecting a baby. He's just trying to get accustomed to the thought that he would be the father, and he's really happy that you're expecting his child.
@maurya83 (923)
• India
8 Mar 13
I think, you get it right :) yes, its our first baby and we both are very excited and happy, not only we two but all members of our families..No doubt he will be a good father as he talk about his future plans for baby.