I was angry with him last night...

He's got another girl. He's moving on. You need to move on. Find someone who wants you.

Tell him that. If he really loves you, he will understand and make it up to you too. Also, you have to be more patient. He is also adjusting to his new environment after all.

why you are angry with him? because he is busy and ignore your feeling this week?? hai ryanong..it`s long time not to see and we chat like several months ago maybe because you and i are so busy..

Most long distance relationship fails because of communication gap and I guess yours is having that problem. To make it work, talk to him about what you want and if possible his too. Like, to know his schedule of work, when he would call or chat instead of you waiting without knowing he would call or text. I think too that his alibi being busy with his work is not acceptable. Text messages twice a week is not enough too, I think.

Hi, It is right that he should have been told you that he will not contact you for a week or he is busy. But he sent only messages. But I think you also frankly ask him why are he behaving so or in what work he is so busy. There may be some reason but he may not want to tell you. You force him to tell the reason. If the reason is genuine then it's OK to continue your love.

It is now a well practiced by many lovers but it is okay as long as you have contacts. Being in a relationship is different of being in prison being in a relationship still you are in yourself do things as usual enjoy life. Don't be angry life is short don't make it shorter. You don't even what he is doing on the placed where she was now.

Let me start off by saying that no experiences are similar and as such the final results. I think it is important for you to gather yourself together start looking at the man you know and at the relationship the both of you are having. From where you are I believe it is happening with everybody who has the right criteria and qualifications to work overseas for a better pay and future. Not being insulting, I am sure you know just how much the most one can earn working in your country. So, it would be a matter of time when you will find either your partner or yourself to be offered an opportunity to work overseas and I will have no doubt that neither of you will refuse the offer. Look around, and see for yourself if the capably good men and women offered jobs overseas. Now, I am confident that you have a good foresight and taste in men where your choice of men are above average. It may not happen when the both of you are dating but if he is good and ends up marrying you. Please consider that he may be equally be offered a job overseas one day. Then, what do you think is going to happen to your marriage? Question: Is the reason for taking of the offer for moving away from an established relationship or marriage (later for you)? I am sure the both of you chose and came together because the both of you saw something of the future which includes the both of you. So, whether you are short or long distance I believe there is something mutual between the both of you which is more than missing out on the timely text messages, that scheduled phone call or video chat even. If he is late then look further, look deeper and see if you are convinced that there may be legitimate issues like time difference and timing. Remember the overwhelming feeling when you were new at the office, and then put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes in a place dealing with cultural shock, uncertainties, living conditions, language, food and other environmental issues. Question: How much time do you think you need to deal with adapting and adjusting? Instead of being negative and rushing for some unwanted answers why don't you make an effort to motivate and encourage him to talk to you. Be understanding and don't put any anticipations before any answers. Trust him and most of all, trust yourself. All humans have a conscience and this is what separates us from the beasts in the animal kingdom. Relationship, whether it is short or long distance is still relationship where it needs to be worked out between the both of you. This may be the umpteenth obstacles the both of you are facing, I think you are not going to tell everybody that you are or both of you are not willing to work together to overcome it. Where others have failed does not necessary mean that you will fail, so please work on it and work hard. Don't give up the fight before it even begin or before it is over.

I think you should confront him why he is like that and be honest with you if he is having an affair or not. If he's always like that even when the first time you two were apart, chances are he's just busy with his work. But if something switched off like a sudden coldness and no message from him, it's time to confront him once and for all.

i been on that situation and like you i decided that i was tired and just ended things. like two years later he told me that he was coming to my country and if i wanted to meet him for a coffee and i didnt accept. he realized after two years that i was worth it. and well it was too late because of course i didnt love him anymore.

It's really not easy for a long distance relationship to keep normal.Since you guys really need understanding and patience,you guys have own thing to do and time zones.So maybe a chat is working and decide how deep your love in order to continue.Good luck to you and it's what you need to face it.

I think, you should not act like that. I guess he has that reason not to chat with you for one week. Before you judge him and act like a childish one, you should know first his side and let him explain. Long distance relationship needs double and an intense cooperative effort so that it would be last long and be successful.Do not be too rude with him.

You have all the right to be angry with him. Though its not his duty to text you everyday, yet if he loves you he would always be thinking about you and worrying about you, wondering all the time what you would be doing right now. At least this is how it is with me.