break up

Yes, I perfectly agree with you cos if someone has agreed to enter into any relationship with you, then he/she has accepted your personality as at the time of the first date. In a case where you bring out your real self later on, he/she might discover a different character from what he wants in a relationship. other factors count though.

Funny how teens play around with love nowadays. They fall in love with love and not with the person. When they find something that turns them off, they easily forget that beautiful thing called love. They seem to easily jump from one relationship to another and breaking up becomes a habit.

I am seeing a program about science bringing together single people to make matched couples. Some of them are well matched and for others something is very wrong with the selected match. These mature people think they know what they are seeking in romantic partner. By comparison teens are yet not fully understanding romance and relationships. The hide themselves under hair, make up and groovy clothing. Their love experiences are so superficial. Love in books is so much better than real love it seems to me. Modern teen couples are always breaking up. They are not yet at an age they wish for marriage and then children.

I think people need to see each other for a while before they have those feelings of love. I have dated people before and after a few months just knew we weren't compatible. So people do date and break up without being in love. It's just part of the learning process of getting to know another person. As for teens, well I know I wasn't mature enough or serious enough to think that it was love. I wanted to be an adult first, on my own and experience the world and grow as a person before had any thoughts of that.

It's not a true love if someone breaking up a relationship, I think. For teens a true love usually means you+me=happy ever after, they are looking for the perfect one like all the prince in the teenlit story.

Hi, You are right. Break up in relations are due to their presentation. For impressing someone pretends as a nice person, very caring and loving and deceives other by the presentation. But after coming into contact for a long time the lie is exposed and real nature is known. so there are break ups. The people who are in love try to impress each other. There is no true love, only attraction. If there is true love then there will be no break up.