The Gossip women

@elenaliu (149)
China
March 8, 2013 4:41am CST
I am crazy that my mother told me there were many women discuss me and my boyfriend,what gossip women are they!My boyfriend and I are middle school classmates,we live very close to each other,when one woman know I have a date with him,nearly all the women in my village know that.I hate the other people discuss my private life,they had made me uncomfortable.I felt insecure about that.I think you guys also don't like other people discuss your private life,aren't you?
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17 responses
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
18 Apr 13
If they discuss about my private life, then I don't make that my business. I show who I am to the world and I have nothing to hide. What's there to worry about?
@gkutti (111)
10 Mar 13
Well this is nothing surprising, this is what women tend to do. I guess it is one of their default characters. do not worry things of this sort will soon fade away. the easiest thing to do is be the talk of the town I hated it in the begining too. Later realised once something more interesting pops up we automatically get forgotten. so wait for that topic to come up. I believe in doing what I like whatever people around say does not bother me. Have a good day..!! :)
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
As long as they are not talking bad against me behind my back, I don't mind being talked about. I guess there's nothing to be bothered with that. You know people in a village know each other and they also feel closed to each other. Just like here in my village everyone knows each other. Don't worry so much as long as you and your bf are not doing something bad go on...
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
i also experienced being the topic of people who gossips.. talking about my private life is none of their business but what can i do that is the way they live.. talking people`s lives.. what i do is i just don't mind them.. i will live my life the way i want it to be as long as i don't step on others.. they can gossip as long as they want.. for all i care...
• China
9 Mar 13
I never care about those gossip and they just want to say something then just let them do it, if you were upset by those women so much, it does nothing good to you and probably for some bad gossip ones, they felt great by what they have annoyed you. So just let it go and enjoy your time with your boyfriend
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
9 Mar 13
I hate gossips people they always ruin your day and also your life. I have a neighbor that she's like a newspaper she tends to chats an do news to some people in her and it is much worst that it will have a bad effect on both sides it will end up war. She likes to talk the private life of other people and that it sucks me a lot. I don't want to hear that lady talking every thing to some people because it is so bad. I prefer to be far away from that lady and its better to keep it in yourself rather discussing or telling it to some people. Our life is private.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
8 Mar 13
Well look at it this way. They don't have anything else going on in their daily lives so the like to talk about other people to make them feel important. Ignore and you are better off. Being angry over it only gives them power over you. Don't give them the satisfaction.
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
8 Mar 13
Gossip, gossip and gossip non-stop. I don't why it is women most of the time. But some men also like to gossip. I think mostly those who gossip are housewives as they have not much responsibility and relatively freer. But those career women hardly gossip as they are busy chasing after their career ladder.
• India
8 Mar 13
Thanks for this discussion and welcome to mylot. There are various kinds of people on this earth, they get some wild pleasure in this sort of activities, just ignore them and be happy.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
9 Mar 13
It's really not cool to hear this and feel bad people gossiping.What you need and can do is to ignore and to live better life,you don't have to proof anything to them and you just control your life and has nothing to do with those women.Hope you feel better and it's common to see this happen.
• Indonesia
8 Mar 13
yes... many gossip woman is everywhere -but I'm not one of them! calm down, if you don't like become their topics, ignore them, don't hear what they say. they have nothing to do, except talking about people. so, let them do it
• Indonesia
8 Mar 13
It happened to me few years ago, people bothered about me and my boyfriend. They always want to know what I'm doing when I back home late. I always told my parents the reason if I will back home late, it's not important to tell my neighbour where will I go, with whom or what will I do, they have no right on me. But the sad thing is sometimes my parent get irritated by all those gossip neighbour. I don't care what they say or think about me as long as my parent know who the real I am
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
9 Mar 13
I hate it when people don't seem to have any other past time but discuss the going ons of my life. I don;t like people going on and on about my business. But we really cannot make people think the same way we do. The best thing to do is just ignore them and let their insecurities eat them out. If there is one thing that I am sure of is that most people who gossip about you is envious of you in some ways.
• India
8 Mar 13
Even i hate such type of gossip women. Our life is ours we can live the way we want to. Why do others interfere in our life.? If your mom dont have any problem with your friend then dont bother about others.
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
8 Mar 13
When you live in a small area you will find that the gossip runs heavy. I always say if they are talking about me they are leaving someone else alone. You should be pleased that you are so interesting that they feel they have to know all about you. lol Just look at it this way... Soon they will have something else to gossip about and will leave you alone. Just hope for a town scandle to happen so you are off the hot seat. Silly ladies have to have something to talk about!
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
8 Mar 13
Hi, I also hate people like those gossiping women. We meet such people in our life who like to gossip. they spread rumors about others and spoil their image. What happiness they get from doing like this I can't understand.
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Don't bother any gossip, As long as you are okay, the most important is you know where you stand and you know who you are they can't help you anyway. Be who you are always.