our disposition determines our fate
By PINKYMARI
@PINKYMARI (50)
March 8, 2013 7:46pm CST
Boom! This life is really unfair. No matter how hard you try to make things fair and work for the better, still there are detractors which/who ruined your very good plan. Family, neighbors, contingencies etc. I failed several times, I fell so many times. I cried I shout and I desperately sob in sorrows. Until one day, I just told myself, I should be thankful for everything that happened. They made me strong. We moved and run to different corners searching for true happiness. But one thing that opened my eyes, HAPPINESS IS DETERMINED BY OUR DISPOSITION AND DISPOSITION DETERMINES OUR FATE. Now, life can play on me, but I will be certain that I will win the battle always
6 responses
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Mar 13
Hi,
I have to agree but I think I understand your logic even if you don't shout it out loud. By disposition it should mean "state of mind" and there's no better way to steer our fate than by being guided by our thoughts translated into actions. Unseen it may be, there's a big difference in taking a bus that meet a fatal accident and taking another one just because of the way one think, predisposed to what could happen in the future. It is almost an unconscious act, born out of long experience and plain common sense. For that matter, being happy is not because of outside stimuli but a matter of choice in any kind of situation, good or bad.
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@PINKYMARI (50)
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9 Mar 13
very well said, sir! this is a very good ideA. Our choices makes our future. but our choices is uprooted from the dispositions that we have in our mind. hence, they work together. overt act does not resulted to execution without thinking. and that corresponds to our decision and disposition that we execute our choices :)
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
9 Mar 13
I can't agree more and i wish that I could figure it out for my self
@PINKYMARI (50)
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9 Mar 13
Maybe you havent had experience a lot in as much as I do. Or you are just too easy to take each struggle a part of it or your tolerance is very strong. We may be different but it is still up to ourselves how to react on a situation. Some people fret too much but to some its just a piece of funny incident. OUr perception over everything as well as our disposition reveals the strength of our personality. Some are heavily laden and to some its a very light thing to handle. Im happy that you are not too bothered in life.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
9 Mar 13
yes I am very toerant but will be pushed so far
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
Yes it does matter what we think b and how we see life in general. If we have a happy and a pair disposition, every set back could mean a bit of trouble and a challenge. This we won't let it destroy what I we have started and still press on and continue v or journey with hope.
Same for a person wHo would think and see things negatively, THEN even before he begins he would already have lost av game in life.
@PINKYMARI (50)
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9 Mar 13
yes that is real. life consist of two sides. front and back, left and right, light and dark. it is only up to us as to where to go. after all, we wont allow others to lead us to the way we dont wanna go
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
10 Mar 13
What a positive way of looking at life despite the imperfections it has! And what you have said is true. No matter what people say to turn us down, it is our choice, always out choice how to make our lives worth living for.
@PINKYMARI (50)
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10 Mar 13
Yes. after all it is only about us and no one else. in our sorrows, we were the ones who cried in deep pain. in our happiness, it is only us who appreciates life at its best. thus, the decision shall only be incumbent upon us. who shall be benefited and be held responsible with the outcome of everything.......after all
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
9 Mar 13
Hi,
You become strong by experiencing failures. You are trying to live the life to the fullest. Many people get frustrated by their failures.Success of today is resulted from the failure of yesterday.You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear on the face,you must do the thing you can do it.
@PINKYMARI (50)
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9 Mar 13
It only goes to show that OUR LIFE IS WHAT WE MAKE IT. Of course, we cannot control the things outside of us. But we can make something by teaching ourselves not to escape or carry it, but TO LIVE WITH IT. Life is Unfair. Acceptance plays a part
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
Hi Pinky ! That is the real woman through any weather ! Life is not about how many times we succeed but it is on how many times we rise after each fall ! Sometimes life is hard to understand and sometimes it can't be understood ! All seems to be dark no matter how we tried it to be colorful still it dark shades comes out. That is why they said life is full of mystery, so strange ! What best thing to do is not to understand it anymore but to accept life , accept what is been going on life . Then from there you can have peace and have another try. This time who knows the tide is already on your side. The important thing is to rise , fight , have a determination and always asked for God's intervention.
@PINKYMARI (50)
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9 Mar 13
Amen. this is very true. consistent with the principle of "LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT" the decision lies in our hand. our choices determines what is going to happen. our future is determined by our present. Prayers is the only weapon we can have in tough time. after all, in this life, there is no winner nor looser. Only lessons... TREASURED LESSONS which we can use all through out
