I obviously hate my life
By 911Ricki
@911Ricki (13588)
Canada
March 8, 2013 8:58pm CST
This girl I went to high school with kept texting me, even after she told me not to talk to her (and I ignored her she carried on with text after text).
According to her I hate my life, and hopefully it gets better for me. I had said how I worked 4 jobs, have school, and animals plus bills to pay but I still fit in friends. So this means to her I hate my life, and in a dark spot.
I sat there, and was like are you serious. Just because my mommy and daddy made me at 16 pay my own rent, bills, and support myself, oh and work means I hate my life, and need to work on it. I was telling this to a friends who knew this girl. She said she must be saying this because of her own life, and tring to bring others down.
I told this friend it's how you make the life, and I can can honestly say I am proud to be able to work (unlike her), pay myself through life (unlike her), support 7 animals, and still keep a budget, and am happy working 4 jobs and still having a little social life (i'm not one to go out everyday).
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8 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
I think this girl was the one who hates b her life for saying so, she only reflected how she might have felt for hers.
I hope she understand that not because we have to pay some bills and be responsible and want to work to earn and support our hobbies mean we are already hopeless and had nothing more to do than hate b this only life we have.
She just really needs to understand That life is complicated and people do have responsibilities in b life and we can do something to make v all things better not just sulk and hate life. Hehehe
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Mar 13
hi chiyhosan and I think she is really just jealous of all
Ricki had accomplishe when I read how she works and saves money aNd has all her brats and cares for all of them and pays all her own bills I was so impressed
and proud of her too.
and proud of her too.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
Sounds that the girl is the jealous type of person. Deep inside she was jealous of what you have and what you are.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
9 Mar 13
Girls like this are usually jealous of girls like you. I would annoy her and consider the source. You were made to pay your way your whole life which has made you stronger and more independent. This girl just wishes she had your life but would never say that to you because she just wants to bring you down. There are people in this world when they see someone happy with their lives they want to bring you down to their level of unhappiness. Don't let them and just keep living the good life that you are happy with. God Bless!
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Mar 13
I think she is jealous of what you have and how well you do for yourself. Plain and simple. When people get jealous they do and say the most stupid things. Your doing good, you know you like your life the way it is so just ignore the idiot!
@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
10 Mar 13
I shut the ringer off, and she kept saying messages for a few hours after. I just ignored her and never replied. I was telling a girl who grew up with both of us, and said she obviously isn't matured, and she obviously her life that she is referring too, and throwing it at me.
@timetravel (1425)
• United States
9 Mar 13
It's that old simple psychology term "projection" - she's projecting on to you what's actually going on with herself. Or - how she would feel if she were in "your shoes" - that if she lived that kind of life she would hate it.
to each his or her own, I say. I am not a social being either - quite content at home with my cats. I could go all day without interacting with another person - except, perhaps, on the internet...lol. Some people are more loners, others are social butterflies, and some fall in between. If we were all alike, how boring would life be?
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
9 Mar 13
Sometimes I cannot see how you do it, and are able to manage like you do. I would need some Free time just to relax and be myself and time to be away from home and my parents, and family. I know you are in the process of trying to save up to where you can eventually move out, so unless this person has truly walked in your shoes how can they understand where you are at?
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
9 Mar 13
Well, typical pessimist and a b. Obviously, she only feels better when people around her feel bad about themselves. She obviously wants you to see it her way, so she can feel better. That's kinda low, and if anything she's something to be pitied upon. Because aside from her nasty attitude, what does she really have going on that's worthy of anything?
