He cheats on her and then she asks him to make up for it in bed???

Have you not heard of the word nympho? She must be one, or else how can anyone overlook what the boyfriend is doing that could end a relationship?

I thought I heard about most of the weirdness with relationships, but a girl wanting the guy just for his body? Now, that's not normal at all. You're right about her not having self-respect at all. I think I wouldn't let him dare touch nor even talk to me if he's not even sorry for what he did. Whew!

Hi Aja! It means now you have started the job of spying and counselling at the same time ......lol! You befriended her so that you could know the real her for the sake of your guy friend but you did not find a positive report about her. It seems to me that while investigating about the girl you added your own likes and dislikes, when making the final report about her. I think let the guy himself interact with her and adjudge her nature, attitude and character to see her suitability.

Stupid... I guess I have too much self respect... they ain't touching me until the vows are done... (hasn't happened yet I'm happy to say!)

I have to say that after reading ALL the above respondents, I could not help but point out that along with your boyfriend and you - have got it all wrong. The girl in question is not the boy's girlfriend but the girlfriend's girl friend, who is an outsider as far as relationship is concern. It is a case of blackmailing to gain ground or level of play here. I am sure if it is the actual girlfriend, he'd be lucky to get away with a slap or in a worse scenario have his erectile removed. I stand to be corrected and I think you should check with your source again.

wow.. such a woman.. she knows what she wants and she gets it. whooo hooot.

Wow that is strange that she asked for her boyfriend to make up for him cheating her in bed. Like hell no, his butt would be out on the street if my husband cheated on me not making up for it in bed. He may be wishing he could make it up to me in bed. But I think she has some issues if she gets over it that easily since her boyfriend cheated on her. I mean what if he brought her home a disease. But also that is what she get after you said he fell asleep instead of making it up to her.

Maybe the guy is really good on bed that makes her want to enjoy it one more time? Jokes aside, indeed her actions is pretty odd. But I have seen or heard before similar cases whereby the gal ask the guy for one more time before they go on separate way.

That is the craziest thing I have ever heard! If my husband cheated on me, he would be GONE! That is one thing I will never tolerate. Did she even think about the fact that him sleeping with someone else could have given him a disease or something? Gross! I would never be sloppy seconds that is for sure. That woman has no self respect and she is just plain nasty!

There's no doubt that her reaction to her boyfriend's cheating isn't normal, it may even be strange. While we could come up with a hundred reasons why she acted that way, the truth is that the girl needed help, not derision.

Not a real relationship at all just for lust. It's crazy that this girl treated herself with no respect a d dignity so the same with the boyfriend. Well if this is the life she wants, it's her life anyway.

Maybe she got intimidated by the cheating and she saw it as competition. Haha. I'm not sure about that but thats what someone i knew did to get her man back but to no avail, it didnt work.

it would be a slice and dice to a part of the body if I caught my love cheating

if in my opinion, she sacrificed herself, so that courtship can be happy and loyal forever with him.

May be she want to wear him out physically to prevent him from going out banging another girl again for the night. You could be right, she probably doesn't has any sense of self respect and has low esteem. Sigh!!

This is a relationship in serious trouble. It does not seem that either one of them has very much respect for themselves or each other. They are just using each other. Soon one of them will push it to the limit and it will be over.The man is having the best of both worlds. He has someone waiting for him at home and has a woman on the side as well. The woman is only after the physical side of the relationship. Something like this just can't work out. I don't see how what they have together can be called love at all.

Maybe they are in a "friends with benefit" relationship. Coz if they really have a true relationship, the guy would not tell her that he'd just make it up in bed, right? And there should be arguing and walking out. But there was none.

Omgsh I wouldn't sleep with some that cheats one me I would be out the door and never coming back.

ah, what! i guess i may agree with you. if i am that girl, i do not want to settle with my boyfriend for less. a mistake is a mistake. i do not know, because as i to say, that i am this kind of person when get involve with someone, i may stick to one. and cheating is a forbidden mistake and intolerable. i cannot agree on this so much more not even reconciling with him in the bed. i cannot take a person while in pain and in misery. gee, we do not have the reason or right to judge but at least give herself a respect and with dignity and not just belittled with anyone more her boyfriend. yeah, what would be her boyfriend might think about her that she is just as easy to handle and that mistake is reconcilable. well, we are just the observers and whatever decision she might take will be her responsibility. thanks :)

Nope, definitely no love lost between those two. But then, not all people who are in a relationship are in there for the same reasons. They might have any other selfish reasons other than love.