Husband had an affair for two years and then moved in with woman.

I am sorry that you have had to go thought that and I hope that time heals your heart she needs to grow up and leave you alone if she still does tell the ex that she is not welcome to contact or have contact with you at all and calls and charges will be file if she keeps it up good luck

Most likely she is feeling insecure right now and maybe she is afraid that he is going to leave her and go back to you or that he is just going to leave her and find someone else. Which most likely always does happen. If you can, I would just not pick up the phone every time she calls and eventually she would stop. She would get bored after awhile with her trying to pester you and you aren't paying any attention to her and showing her that whatever she tells you is not getting to you at all. Try to ignore her and talk to your husband and tell him to stop having her call you when there is no true reason for her to be calling you in the first place. If there is something that he needs to discuss with you then he should be the one calling you and not her. I used to have the same problem with my husband's ex and I just completely ignored her and eventually she just stopped calling me all together.

she is doing it because she is insecure. i know of a similar situation. the girl was insecure because she knew she was just the "other woman" and always will be. she is actually jealous of you. baby's mama always comes first whether you want him or not. she just can't be sure he still wouldn't go back to you if you would have him. that is HER problem, not yours. you should tell him to keep his hoes in check.

Her insecurity probably is getting to her. From what I heard from friends, people having affairs usually feel that there's some sort of competition going between them and the legitimate wife or husband. And this sometimes doesn't stop even if they end up living with them. I know this may sound feeble or lame, but try not to get affected by whatever this woman is doing. If you don't, you're letting her get the better of you.

She is probably worried the same thing will happen to her...which she might be right. If he cheated on you with her, who is to say he won't do the same thing to her?!? I would never want to be a home wrecker that is for sure. I hate hurting people and I would not want to be cheated on! I would try to ignore her the best you can. It's bad enough they did this to you but now she is making it much worse by not leaving you alone... Some people never grow up. I hope she goes away for you!

mommaj I had the same problem with my ex and his wife. She had the nerve to call me asking me all types of questions about when we was together. I told her that it was none of he business. I told her not to worry because she only got him because I don't want him. I told her if I wanted him I could call and would be back. She hung that Phone up I have'nt heard from her since.

Hi Mommaj, how are you getting on? Are you hiding in your cave again to get away from that crazy woman. I think you just have to call your ex-husband and tell him to control his crazy woman. Maybe the way you react makes the woman regrets about taking your husband away She sounds as if she has taken your rubbish home! Faster come back to Mylot. It has started paying again.

I can't believe I missed this discussion! So sorry you're going through this. Either she's crazy or she wants to be friends. Email me so we can "talk" about it.

Even though they are together she still feels threaten by you because of the past you had with your husband and of course the kids. If I were you I would change the phone number so she can't call you again. Or tell your ex to tell her to stop calling you. There is no reason whatsoever for her to be calling you. Your ex I'm sure wouldn't like it either.

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Sounds like this woman's ego demands that she believe she won her husband away from his wife. And discovering that you can't steal something from someone who didn't want it in the first place must be very frustrating. But a court order to stay away might well be what you have to resort to.