Healthy relantionships
@coolieemmanuel (15)
United States
March 10, 2013 3:02pm CST
Well i don't know how to put this but, here i go . please tell me, is this rite?
A couple of days ago my girlfreind thought i was cheating. Wow! were did that come from! And well i thought she would understand when i told her it wasn't true. but she said that some how her friend had evidence of it? and i don't even know what friend she was talking about. What the hec! And since we was really close i thought she would have trust in me but she believed her friend over me!!!! Did we have a healthy relationship?
Or was she just over me? Have you ever had this happen to you before? Well this true story broke my heart because we had tackled harder things in the past.
But maybe, someone else cheated for me?! Because i was with my cousin that same night and he "used" my phone for a while. Do you think he could of set me up because he was jealous? I mean he didn't want us to go out in the first place, even though he brought us together. Does that make sense? So what happened and why did we go our sepret ways? What should i do? What could of caused this? I NEED ANSWERS!!!!!
3 responses
@sandaikite256 (92)
• Sweden
10 Mar 13
One sure thing when you are in relationship...do NOT ever let anyone touch your phone and send some messgaes to your girlfriend that you don't know.
Some people are indeed jealous of some couples so they try to break them up. Which I don't like that. Keep close to your girlfriend and prove that her friend is wrong and that she should trust you more than her friends. Trust is one of the top things in relationship that are very important. I don't know why, but different people have their own reasons to separate other couples witch in my opinion that is something we can say evil or really bad that is not acceptable.
First thing, prove your girlfriend that YOU are right, not others.
Second thing is that you would never do that to her and she should trust you as well you have to trust her too.
@sandaikite256 (92)
• Sweden
10 Mar 13
I'm sorry for the wrong typing, the last sentence should be like this: Second thing is that you should say to your girlfriend that you don't cheat on her and you never will so she should trust you as well you should trust her too.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
11 Mar 13
I would ask her what proof does that friend have to prove that you have been cheating. That could possibly clear up a lot of things. Though it is very hurtful when even your closest friends won't believe you when you are telling the truth too them.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
10 Mar 13
well sounds like she does have trust issues and as you said maybe over you but if she thinks this then ask for the proof as the friend might just be filling her full of lies good luck and wish you the best
