My Granddaughter Cooked Lunch
By cynthiann
@cynthiann (18602)
Jamaica
March 10, 2013 8:52pm CST
Whenever I need help on my pc I call on my 12 year old GD. We have always got on well and I love being with her.
So we arranged to meet about 2pm at her mother's house and I traipsed over there with twins in tow. I hadn't realised that her other GM was there plus relatives on her mother's side but they made us welcome.
I suddenly realised how grown up she has become. She was grilling hot dogs and burgers for everyone, whipping up a salad, and thinking of dessert plus chatting to the twins.
She has so grown up. Once she it all organised she opened my pc while asking what the problem was and yes, she fixed it.
So we stayed and after lunch she played on her guitar (self taught after one lessons to learn keys or something) and I marvelled at the young lady she is becoming.
Have you ever had a road to Damascus moment and realised that your child or grand child has suddenly matured?
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Mar 13
hi dawn and you kn ow whyh don't you? cause she has a good mom sho has tained her and woked with her and guided here so be proud of you and her both.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Mar 13
darne tyhpos trained not tained and worked not woked sorry about that stupid dylexic fingers shame on them
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
11 Mar 13
That's so nice her mother's family was nice to you and the twins.. unlike the twins mother's family!
Almost everyday I see how much my kids are growing up, and it's sad.
Yesterday I brought my kids to visit a friend of mine and her kids. Her son is 8, and my 6 year old was just about the same height as him. My 6 year old is a tall boy!
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
11 Mar 13
It's good to keep them close like that. How nice of their mom to be so good to you all.
Yes my 6 year old son does wear clothes for an 8 year old. Most of my kids have always worn a size larger than their age.. except my youngest. He's the tiny one of the bunch. He's 5 now but still wears size 4 clothes.. and probably will until he's 6.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
My GD is still wearing topd for a 3 year old but she is tall so if we buy pants then we have to get her length with an adjustable waist. We call her bones. She will be seven in June and only weighs about 33 lbs But the Dr. considers her to be healthy. She eats protein and fruit and beggies and is just not into carbs so I give her whole milk to push in a few calories
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
We have a great relationship with the GD's mother. She came to Rachel's wedding etc and I see her quite often. She knew that if work went crazy then I was always there in any emergency to pick up my GD from school and bring her to my office. She has the twins over for sleepovers too. So the children spend a lot of time together. Likewise the GD spends sleepovers with us too. Your 6 year old must be very tall then. Do you buy clothes for an 8 year old?
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
11 Mar 13
Oh yeah, even with the adults ones I see how they have matured over a short period of time. My 10 y/o also surprises me with some wise words, but at 10, I guess they go back and forth, because the next thing he does is something so totally opposite and immature..
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
11 Mar 13
Oh, she sounds like an adorable little girl... Even my most outspoken child would too shy to say something to the customs officer...
No, my son demonstrates his personality only to family and friends...
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
She's polite but outspoken. At another airport - I think Miami- she was holding her passport and HS wanted to look at it. So she asked him if she was not in America? He said she was. Then she asked him in she could have got on a plane without a passport. he replied no. So she said that being in America meant that she had a passport and they had seen her passport at Immigration so why did he want to see it again? He could hardly keep a straight face and quickly said that he just wanted to see her photo in the passport as she was so pretty a little girl. So she complied.
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@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Mar 13
Yes, I have. When my granddaughter and I had to move out for a period of time afew years back. She helped me alot. Did the meals and cleaned. She ran errands and was so kind. She like to cook and clean for some reason. She is a good hearted young lady.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
Oh that is lovely, I am glad that you have a great relationship with her. My one is now advising me what to wear!
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@celticeagle (166911)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Mar 13
Kids seem to develope faster now days and are very smart aren't they? My granddaughter and I have had our bad times. She is a pretty good kid though.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
I have been wondering if she will change at all say, when she reaches 15 years old. I hope not but teenage years can be tough
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Mar 13
thats so neat. A few days ago my son made me breakfast here. its so sweat when they do those things for us.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
HYour son sounds like a great boy too. And yes, I did feel so proud of her and her Mom has done a wonderful job with her as she has high self esteem and I never had that at all
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
That is good. I have three sons - all different but they are great too. I am so blessed with my four children
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
11 Mar 13
hes been a great kid, but really a big help since I left his dad 2 years ago. :)
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
multitasking, smart,talented, and she's only 12. we really do live in a fast-paced world. they pick up on things so fast and they're not afraid to learn on their own.
I traipsed over there with twins in tow.
i could visualize the three of you skipping, laughing and singing on the way there, blue skies, mild breeze and all.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
Definitely laughing, and blue skies together with a breeze. But I don't do skipping anymore but the twins do
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
Yes as the extended family gives them a feeling of family and continuity as well as love
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
11 Mar 13
it's always good for a son or daughter to be close to an aunt, uncle or grandparent.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
That's sweet of you. Yes, it is like we are close friends. She tells me her little secrets and then she gives advice on my make up. she is notimpatient with me when I don't grasp a computer probem immediately and I appreciate her gentleness with me.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
11 Mar 13
Yes! The youngest is growing up so fast. I talked to her dad last night and when he picked her up for his week she had made supper. Some sort of green bean casserole...wonder whose idea that was.....her's or her mother. I am thinking my ex DIL is having regrets!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
This story is like my son's. But he was in a very long relationship from they were 17 but they did not get married. She fell for someone else and told him to leave. I know that she has regretted it and they will always be friends but although she had had boyfriends she did not marry. sometimes a person has to lose someone before they realise the worth of that person. I suspect that she did not have a teenage time and this was the problem
@schulzie (4061)
• United States
11 Mar 13
Wow! What a lovely young woman she has grown into! It must make you proud and happy to have such a mature granddaughter. I hope one day my grandchildren are like that. She really will be a multitalented woman when she grows up - sure to be a success!
Have a great day and happy myLotting!!!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
Thank you for your very kind words. I just want her to develop as she is doing. I pray that she will not chnage
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Mar 13
wow cynthiann that sounds like a lovely little girl and so grown up already too.i am glad you and her get along so well and that you have a lovely time there too. She is very accomplished for a 12 year old but todays kids are so far ahead of kids of a generation back., I used to work in the library and on my day off I stopped in to use one of the computers and got myself in a mess as it was different from mine at home,.this kid about ten came over. 'Can I help" he asked and I nodded. He did this and that and in ten minutes he had me all untangled and ready to post. I asked him how old he was and his grand his grandmother came up and told me" hes just six but hes a gifted child": and i had to agree there. very gifted indeed.After that I often met up with the little boy and his grandmother. I always wondered why he was with her .and one day she told me his parents had been killed in a head on collision on the freeway with a driver going the wrong wahy who plowed into their car.She told me he was only one and was crying when the ambulance people got to his parents and him, He was not hurt but his parents were both killed.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
Oh that is such a sad story. I am proud of her and we have travelled together to the Us and the UK from she was five years old and she was just a delight to travel with. Not a whiner
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
12 Mar 13
Sounds like u have a mighty smart young lady. I know u are proud of her. These grands make our life worth living. They sure do grow up in a hurry tho. Bet the twins enjoyed themselves to. Glad y'all could all be together. Take care of yourself. love ya!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
12 Mar 13
Yes, the Grands do make life worth living. I do hope that you are keeping okay? Please let me know
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
11 Mar 13
wow at 12 yrs old? thats fantastic. sounds like she can do nearly everything. hope she gets a man thats really good to her and appreciates all she is becoming. or even not and have a great career instead not sure i would think anyone would be good enough for a lady that talented. WOW!
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
11 Mar 13
I think that she will go for a career first. She is bright and doing well at High School. On her mother's side they are ;awyers and are trying to gently push her in that direction but she told them that at present she has not made a decision. She will make up her own mind but it will involve something to help people
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
13 Mar 13
I'm with my daughter every single day so this isn't something that I've noticed with her overnight. However, she is only ten years old and I see her doing and saying things that are so very mature and it just impresses me. I know that the day will come (and it isn't too far down the line) that she really is going to all of a sudden go from being a girl to being a young lady. I also have to say that the thought of it scares me a little bit.
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
13 Mar 13
Yes it is scary. I just hope that the teen years will go smoothly but she has a wonderful, understanding mother who will help her in every way. They do grow up so quickly.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
14 Mar 13
I'm still waiting for that moment!
I have a 12 year old, and I can't see him being matured enough. Maybe it's because he's the oldest (when they get together with his younger brother, their 10 year old cousin, and 10 year old neighbor). Maybe he's being pulled back down.
I know I was definitely matured enough when I was 12. Maybe not the fixing-pc type, but definitely matured in terms of girl-hunting type!