Are you willing to love your bestfriend ex?
By borgieboy7
@borgieboy7 (72)
Philippines
March 11, 2013 1:00pm CST
If in the case you have someone whom you really love and found out that this person is the ex of your bestfriend, are you willing to accept that person?
I had an experience before, I met a girl and we fall to each other's quickly. Since we fall in a short period of time, I hadn't know that one of her ex is my bestfriend. I only knew that thing when I introduced her to my friends. My bestfriend got angry immediately. I tried to explain everything to him but ended up misunderstood.
If you're on my side, what will you do? How are you going to explain everything to your bestfriend? Are you still willing to love your bestfriend's ex?
6 responses
@RiverLight (240)
• Romania
11 Mar 13
Well it's not like you knew she was her ex girlfriend, you can't control such things, it happened.
Hmm, didn't happend to me until now and i hope it won't happen, i don't know what i'll choose.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
12 Mar 13
Start bout with the facts: that you did NOT know she was an ex. Why is he angry at you for something that you didn't know about? Secondly... she's an EX: That means that they stopped dating. She's free. Why is he wanting you to step away?
In a case like this... I wouldn't say willing, because love is not something I can control, but I wouldn't stop the relationship, because I care about my own happiness, and it's not like I snatched their partner, because they don't date anymore.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Just knowing that he was an "EX", should mean that he should no longer be bothered with the relationship that you have now with his ex. Besides, you were not the reason why they broke up, so what's the big deal, right?
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Your friend might think you are betraying him. But I think there is nothing wrong with loving that girl. But it is going to be complicated since you have to consider your friend's feeling too.
I think that if he is a good friend, he would understand you are in love and that everything with him and that ex of his should be in the past. No grudges. If he carries grudges then... that is not good.
@blackrusty (3519)
• Mexico
11 Mar 13
Give him time to cool of and i am sure that you did not know and explain that to him things do happen that is out of our control
• India
11 Mar 13
well, it all depends on who you prefer most to be in your life, ur love or ur friends. if i really love someone then I just don't care what was the reaction of other people, the only thicg I care is about me and her.
