what in your opinion ....???

@ayano678 (441)
March 11, 2013 5:53pm CST
I had a college friend who worships a woman. Up to a dozen times betrayed, he remains faithful. Hundreds injured, it's still not budging put his heart on the idol's heart. Thousands of suggestions have been given, other views have also described excessive love. What is excessive love has covered the eyes of the heart my friend.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
I feel sorry for your friend. I hope that he realizes how much time he has wasted over a woman that clearly does not deserve the kind of love that he offers.
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@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
13 Mar 13
In all honesty, a person who is completely blinded with that kind of person can never be forced by anyone to get out from the relationship unless he himself realizes how stupid he has been all these times.
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@ayano678 (441)
12 Mar 13
Thank you for your response of my discussion. so, what should I do so that she does not like it.
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@ayano678 (441)
15 Mar 13
so I can not change it or make him realize that his view is not currently true.
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@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
A clear case of love being blind or should i say really truly deeply in love, lol! Sometimes the heart hears and sees differently from what our eyes and ears do, but the overwhelming emotion within sort of reflects undeniable happiness that somehow makes one complete, if you will. Martyrs are really best admired for their faith, undying love to what they believe in.
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@ayano678 (441)
12 Mar 13
Thank you for your comment. belief of what we believe in? what does this mean, I still do not understand those words.
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@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
13 Mar 13
Believing that we truly are in love, believing that we are right on what we feel deep inside our heart and in our mind that other seems to believe have blinded our eyes to see normally the truth behind such situation that has transpired which could easily assessed and be reflected as an abnormal behavior.
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@ayano678 (441)
15 Mar 13
Thank you for your comments and explanations.
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@machatago (385)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Well, one thing is for sure, with all the build up pain he is feeling. Sooner or later, he will leave her. It's no use giving advice to him now since he is feeling the passion of love. But as time will pass by, I know he will eventually get tired and will want a woman that is deserving for him. You just wait, it's not that long.
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@ayano678 (441)
12 Mar 13
Thank you for your comments and predictions. waw, you can do that, I am very impressed with you.
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@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Your friend is a good example of the saying "Love is blind." but to nth power. I mean they say that love is blind because we usually forgive and forget many of the shortcomings of our partner. But not to the point that they are already betraying us or making a fool out of us. That is definitely love. I do not know what makes him change his mind and realized that this girl isn't worth it. I hope that he would realized that the soonest before he get himself into more heartaches and problems.
@ayano678 (441)
12 Mar 13
thank you for your opinions and comments. well I'll try to give appropriate explanation of what you say, so he better understood.
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@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
16 Mar 13
When it comes to love, some people would just do anything for their love of life. Sometimes they may not be able to differentiate their feelings. Whether it's the common love or the person is just crazy about something of the person loved. Yet, in my view it's wrong to stick with such unconditional love if the partner does not know how to appreciate that. As you mentioned, the woman betrayed him dozen times and hurt her for hundred times too. If the woman really love the friend of yours, she wouldn't have done that. That concludes the woman is not worthy of your friend's love.
@ayano678 (441)
16 Mar 13
Thank you for your comments and feedback. I agree with you, my friend searusnya not love a woman who does not have a heart.
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• Indonesia
12 Mar 13
Let him enjoy what he is feeling now, as friend we can only give him opinion or suggestion but can not pushing him to do what we are thinking what best for him. Someday he will find out that he have to live in the real world not in imagination world.
@ayano678 (441)
12 Mar 13
Thank you for your feedback on this discussion. if no one can change him, besides us as friends? because I am very sorry for him, I want to make it do not count as such and not overly done like that.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Mar 13
hi ayano I think this person is r eally obessessed rather than just ik love as he cannot really believe that she has betrayed him countless times so its not love but a sick obsession that he needs to get over. Its obsession that has blinded him to the truth and the reality.
@ayano678 (441)
17 Mar 13
Thank you for your comment. just an obsession. you say may be true.