2 lovers
By AR Dianon
@dianon_ice14 (461)
Philippines
March 11, 2013 8:22pm CST
My friend keeps on sharing me her problem about her relationship,, and I don't know how to advise her so maybe you guys could do....here's the thing
SHe has a long time boyfriend an dso far she said that they are okay but I doubt because they often fight even with the simpliest reason. And then there's this guy who is her long time friend who likes her a lot and been courting for 9 years now. So since she is having some down times with her boyfriend she accepted the offer of his friend to be the third party,,,,
The question is.. what is the best thing she could do?????
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5 responses
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
i think it is best to break up with the boyfriend and be with the friend. i think the friends has better intentions. courting for 9 years is really great deal of time. a guy who would invest such years might be very serious in wanting to be with her.
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
13 Mar 13
sometimes it isn't just about love. sometimes its about what is right. sometimes happiness cannot be in the person you love.
@machatago (385)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
I've heard this story before. Much better? She won't choose any of them, that way she can assess herself on to who is more deserving. Just give herself some space from her boyfriend and from her friend. But seriously, I have heard this story before.
@jonastabuena (2307)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Leave his boyfriend and choose the third party, for me, if love the person no matter what the person is, i won't leave or cheat the person, it pretty obvious that your friend is not happy anymore about his boyfriend, but i'm also thinking, what if she just using her friend for the sake that her friend is always there for here.
Your friend need some space to know her self and who she really likes between the both, to avoid trouble or hurting someone.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Accepting third party in a relationship is the worse one could ever do. Choose just one or else you make your life troublesome. If he could not fit perfectly with the first, then end the relationship before getting someone new. She can't be a two timer and be happy. She is putting herself in a very bad situation if she keeps that kind of relationship.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Why hang on to a relationship when there is not longer any love between the two of them? I say, give up on her boyfriend and be with the person whom she thinks will reciprocate the love that she has.
