what can't you accept in a relationship ?

These are the things i just cannot accept: 1. verbal and physical abuse 2. disrespect to people especially to family and relatives 3. making decisions which is supposed to be decided by the two of us 4. no sense of direction I am going to think more because I have never thought about it for quite sometime.

I will never have relationship with a bad temper guy. Economic gap can be finished by time and the looks is does not matter. Bad temper will make 1 side living like hell, I think. Bad temper guy is so unacceptable for me, I want a peace, freedom and want my right to be respected by my partner. I don't need abuser as my life partner.

Hi. For me, I'd also chose the temper. That's one of the worst quality that's hard to manage or change. For the others in the list, there could be a remedy and they are not so much contributory to the relationship. You just need to accept the person as he/she is and everything will go well. What I can't accept in the end is, when you have accepted the person as he/she is and cheats you at the end.

I can't accept bad temper. Because I am easily affected by his emotions. If our temper unite what will happen? Well for sure we will blast like a bomb. So it's better to not affected by both bad temper..

So far in my relationship, I am happy and there aren't any major problems so far. The last one was pretty much with the parents since they can't accept the fact that I was with a much older guy before. But now I have met someone who is close to my age and everything is going well.

From this list, what I cannot accept is 1. and 3. 1. is becaue I wanna feel safe in a relationship, and I don't wanna worry when he's gonna hit me or how he's gonna belittle me if he finds my daily meal not so stellar, or if he woulkd try to want to make me a household robot/slave. 3. is because... I'm not sure if I could fall in love with a person I have nothing in common with. Other things I wouldn't accept: lying, cheating, taking me granted and neglecting me.

I would not accept a cheater, an abuser or a person who does not respect me and other people. I don`t know about bad temper, but if he had one, he should be able to control it partly if he is respectful. I don`t know about social status, but I think that usually people relate to their peers.

Since I have been married for twenty years, I realised these 1) economy status do have its impact. 2) common interest like musical, movies, hobbies are important for bonding. 3) social and religion background 4) personality, habits and characters differences 5) age gap Therefore, if there are more differences.. both parties must put more effort to make the relationship works.

hello Mintlin! if we wont have anything in common to talk about then the relationship would be very dry and boring and it wont flourish at all. for me being able to talk with my friend about anything and everything in this world and enjoying it matters much. i can't be a friend to anyone who chews my head off every time i open my big mouth to start a conversation.

If we nothing to talk to then that is the end of it. It all starts with physical attraction then when the honeymoon stage is over I need someone who could talk to me about anything. We should be at least in the same wave length. I get bored if I don't get anything from the other party. I am not saying that he or she should be interested in what i say but at least there is a strong opinion in this person that could help the conversation going. Even with friends, if I don't find them talking then I would rather go home and watch some movies or read a good book with a cup of coffee. There is so much to talk about. That is why it is just so impossible to be with a person who just doesn't have anything to say.:)

In a relationship, when things are not working out, most of us wants to change or change our partner. But where is the love in that? If you love that person, then you should accept them. But some people also think that if that person really loves them, then they should change for the better of their relationship. But would this really help their relationship? The answer is, it really depends, but changing someone will really affect your relationship. It also depends on how eager that person would want to change and how they were force to be change. A change for the better is good but it depends on who you want to change. If the problems of your relationship is you yourself, then volunteer and make changes of yourself and turn that bad to good. Always remember this when you are in a relationship. Never force your partner to change, just talk it out and its much better for them to decide if they want to change or not. If they really love you, they will do that for the better of your relationship. But if they hesitate and you just keep on forcing them, your relationship would eventually go down the drain. Let them decide, because nobody knows them better than they do. They know who they are, and what they are in the past and present. Changing them for no reason at all will eventually affect on how they see themselves.

I could not accept a bad temper because i'm a peaceful person and i also can't stay with a person i don't have nothing in common, it'll be boring. I don't really need the parents/relatives support, if he loves me it's all that matters. I would also add: lying, cheating, being selfish, doesn't respect me.

lies,,, I can not stand hearing lie,it ruins all trust and feeling and hope.. and bad temper,,,,, that is also destroy a relationship but there are some people who their nature change by time and by receiving love from us.... and another what I really can not stand in my life is poor mind, I mean not sophisticated in laws... that will creat a huge problem in life if family of men are less than family of lady or opposite.... it is good to marry on standard of family that we belong ..

Well, the ones you listed aren't the ones that I can't accept in a relationship. There are others one, like for instance respecting what I say and do in a type of situation.