missing an old special friend
By cherigucchi
@cherigucchi (14876)
Philippines
March 12, 2013 12:11am CST
No matter how much I try to deny it, I am terribly missing him. No text, no messages, no calls. I think they took me seriously (I really was because of some complications) when I told him that it was better not to let the friendship gets deeper. He was an old flame and though I wanted to keep the friendship or just have a final closure...he just didn't want to give in. He said that it was too much for the asking. I even told him that we needed to lose the contact and even unfriend each other in FB but he begged. I never even tried to do the first step of communicating with him because I want to let him feel that I was really serious about it.
Wheneve I miss him, I am just visiting his FB profile but there's a little activity there anymore. I don't know but I really miss him...
Are you also missing someone but just cannot reach out??
5 responses
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
You tell him you don't want your relationship to get deeper and now that he has distanced the way you want him to, you miss him? You need to make up your mind. If you can't handle not having him around, why did you push him away in the first place?
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
20 Mar 13
True!!! I cannot argue more with your point. Have you not experienced the same thing somehow when you are caught between saying what you think but not feeling the way you feel?? Kinda crazy, isnt it? I need some kind of that slap on my face...hahahaha! It is as if he's the one telling me that already...thanks for your response, my friend!
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
20 Mar 13
I don't think I have experienced that.
But my friend did something like you did. That's all my experience about it.
Just be honest with yourself. Tell him the truth. He deserves it. Lying to yourself and denying your own feelings will only make you feel miserable. Trust me.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
Quite miserable may be but I won't be adding insult to injury by making the other rejoice at that expense! Hahaha! Too proud, isn't it? I guess i leave it that way and let nature take its own course.
Thanks for your reply, my friend.
@Scoffield127 (110)
• United States
12 Mar 13
That is one of the things we have that we I miss someone, I can't deny-emotions. If I think I'm missing you, I throw away anything ego and profess.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
14 Mar 13
it depends on the situation you are into. Sometimes things are quite complicated than you every think it is. There are things which are easier said than done.
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 13
I miss my friend whe we were on fight, we made cold war the 2nd
Sometimes it's not easy to start a conversation after some arguing between us but we have to because we will miss each other if none of us start talk 1st
Sometimes it's not easy to start a conversation after some arguing between us but we have to because we will miss each other if none of us start talk 1st
@Raine38 (12389)
• United States
12 Mar 13
I do miss some friends, mainly because we are now physically far apart. But it is not to the point that we no longer contact each other kind of miss. Thank goodness I am not in that kind of situation now, I used to be and it was really horrible. I hope you get over it soon.
