Do you ask for help when you need it?

Hi, I don't like to ask for the help as far as possible. Because I don't like to give trouble to anyone. But sometimes in some situations we need help from others. The people who are close to us are ready to help us at anytime. We should thank them for their help. we also should keep us ready to help them whenever they need.

no offense at is my own opinion asking help is not showing your weakness it is like asking a favor to your friends and if they real they will help you as long as they can

No I don't ask any one for help, because they always come up, with excuses why they can't, help me so if I need money, I just come here online, to get the money that I need, to support myself, and anything else I need, I make sure I do it myself, if I have to go some where, I take the bus, I am working on making it so, I won't have to ask, any one for a ride any more, no I won't be driving, I no longer have a license, and I am not working to, get another one either.

This truly is not a sign of weakness, however it is something I personally have to work I love to help others but sometimes we need to say hey I need help too and not think any less of ourselves.

Hey... I dont like to ask for help just try doing most of the things myself. Because i have experienced most people dont like to help. So i am just afraid now to ask for help. Peoples hardly get time to help eachother as they as busy in their own lives and they think we are troubling them. Experience teaches lot of things.. Happy Posting!!!!

I do ask for help once I know that I cant solve it on my own. Asking for help is not a sign of being weak. Its always nice to have some input on your problem, I mean a friend can help you with some suggestions and stuff like that to help you solve your problem.

. It is not a sign of weakness. When we ask someone we humble ourselves and open ourselves for further learning from others. Their strength is our additional strength. I used to be independent but then as I mature I learned to be a team player. Asking other people's help that just mine to finish a project and trusting them as well.

I really try my best to solve any problems that I encounter. The only time that I ask for help is when I know that I have done everything in my part but resulted to none. And it is usually my parents that I go to or my mother in law.

I don't think there's something wrong with asking help. It doesn't make us less of a person if we admit to ourselves and to others that there are certain things that we just can't do by ourselves. But personally, it depends on the kind of help that I would need. There are some things that I would rather handle alone, and there are some instances that I do not mind having a helping hand.

I dont like to bother people. SO sometimes I get frustrated with things. Because I dont like to ask for help. Just me...

I'm with you Dominique. Nobody can do everything alone. How does that song by The Temptations or Bill Withers go - just call on me brother, when you need a hand We all need somebody to lean on That song is one of my favorites!

Yes, if I am in need of any help, I ask it from my friends, well-wishers and relatives.

For me, asking for help, especially when you need it, is not a sign of weakness. When you are doing something for the first time, its okay if you ask for help. It is indeed that you must know the thing before you take it on your own. It is normal that there were times that you don't know it immediately - that's why help is there to guide you in all the steps of the way.

Why not, especially when I really need one and I can no longer do it by myself. But of course, you have to choose carefully on who to ask help from. If its from someone you're close to, there shouldn't be a problem and surely, they'll be glad you asked for their help. But if its not and you thonk you can do it on your own, then don't ask. But it usually depends on how badly you need help.

I think hat a lot of people feel that they have failed if they have to ask someone for any help. There is really no need to feel that way. You are not weak for asking for help. Sometimes the asking is the strongest thing we can do. In a way we are helping ourselves by seeking out the help we my need.

A pleasant day Dominique25, Most of the time, I don't really asked for help but if the need arise, then I will asked a bit of it to prevent things to go on mistake. Especially if what is at stake is the flow of documents in the office, so as to prevent the mistake to turn to be a chain reaction, I would asked a bit of help to have the necessary precaution.

Asking for help is not a sign of weakness.When I have a problem,I first try to solve it on my own.Sometimes I succeed,sometimes fail,and when I fail I prefer to ask someone else to help me solve it.Others too require my help often and I gladly help them.Years ago I didn't have money to buy medicines for my ailing son.I first tried to get money by selling my old books,but the medicines were costly.Finally I had to ask one of my friends to help me and he helped me.I soon payed his money back.I don't think it was a sign of my weakness.

I do not think asking for help is a sign of weakness.In fact, i consider it as a strength.One should know one's strengths and weakness and the extent of things possible.Sadly, some people never figure this out at all.Now when it comes to help, it involved 2 scenarios for me.One in which i have no clue and need desperate help.In that case, even if its inconvenience of others, i might need to check out and seek their help.Some may help and some might not.Second case is, i know what needs to be done but something or someone is preventing me from going further.In that case, i would evaluate my opinions.If in case, i can achieve things without disturbing others that is what i would normally choose.However, in case there are other factors involved, then i would think of asking help.Helping others or accepting the help,often as you said rightly saves time and effort and best of all peace of mind.After all,end of the day,things needs to be cleared and life should be back to normal.Well,i have helped people and have also accepted help from others.Both according to me are great things and helps many a times to give some satisfaction to minds.Thanks!

I always ask when I can find some one I hate to be looking around for any thing and spend hours for looking for it

I agree with you. Asking anyone's help doesn't mean you are weak. You are asking someone's help because you want to learn from that person and save time as well.In my opinion, You will become a burden if you always do that. We just need to be sensitive.. :)