These little kids are unbelievable, dissappointed in their parents
By Renhard
@Renhard (3471)
Jamaica
March 12, 2013 5:46pm CST
There is a main rule in parenting. Grow your child with respect and manners. Grow him/her to be a role model and not just a misbehaving child.
I saw this video on youtube with some really rude children. It is unbelievable. The curse words they use at their parents and the disrespect they always show. Can you believe a 7 year old telling her mother she has 3 boyfriends and she wear short skirt to show her legs and the mother cant do anything about it.
Can you believe a 7 year old boy telling his mother curse words and any time the mother disagrees with the child, the child hits the mother.
There is no such thing as a child hitting a mother here in Jamaica. And if the child ever show disrespect he/she would always get a spanking.
Please just look at the youtube video and tell me your views:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gb9riv44M-M
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13 responses
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
13 Mar 13
Those kinda children are terrible , will just make people life hell . I dont know if its the parents fault but definitely sometimes . My cousin was born in Jamaica and when she went to live in London she change completely and have about 3 boyfriends at the age of 14 , she also curse out her parents .
I saw a video on youtube with some small children bullying an old woman and made her cry , I wish I could go in there and walk all over them lol I can imagine most of them becoming monster as the grow older .
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
13 Mar 13
It's sad when a child changes to much so quickly. Scary even. I know a lot of parents will get knocked around on here with they should have done this or that, but you've given the perfect example that the surroundings can play a big part in this.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
13 Mar 13
I am 19 now and even if I cursed out my parents, I am 100% sure I would get piece of spanking and then kicked out of the house.
A friend of mine is the same thing, she was so quiet and nice when she was here in Jamaica. As soon as she migrated to America, the things she started to do was unbelievable. In jamaica she used to be upset because her mother don't always want to give her, her way. But that is all she did, got upset and stayed in her room. Now in America when she doesn't ahve her way, she make her way. She have changed greatly.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
13 Mar 13
The environment of the child really is a big factor, therefore we should all lookout for our kids, i just feel bad about the kids that they didnt have a proper set of morals that they'd let negative environment change them. I guess its because they have access to those things which is what made them change.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
12 Mar 13
see, here in the united states, if you spank a child, the child could get taken away from you and you could go to jail. the children over here know it and use it against their parents. that's why children act the way they do over here in this country.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
13 Mar 13
This is why children abuses the law that is supposedly created to protect them.
Physical abuse is not about disciplining a child. I agree that a child must be disciplined and it is not necessary to use force and spank or hurt them physically. My mom has always been a disciplinarian, she made sure that just her look would stop us from being unreasonable kids throwing tantrums and all.
I remember my aunt in canada and she tried to discipline my cousin and told her to get out of the door and face the door and stay there for a couple of hours until he realizes that he has committed a mistake. so their neighbors called 911 and my aunt was threatened that they will take him away for good. Ever since then, my cousin would always shout at my aunt if she is angry at what he did and say " i will call 911!!"
its not cute, so they had to bring him here in the Philippines with our grandmother - boy he did change a lot and he's so much better now. He's not acting like a brat and he's improved and is more respectful. our grandmother did one good job disciplining him. hehe :D
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
13 Mar 13
Ok i understand, so what can you do then to discipline a child? I am really curious to know. I heard genes sometimes have alot to do with your behavior. Growing up in a calm family can sometimes make you respectful from the beginning. But what about the others who are disrespectful and bad, how do you discipline them before it is too late. I know it wont be pretty if they turn adults with the same mentality.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
13 Mar 13
No no, i dont think its genes at all. I doubt their parent smoked and rolled weed when they were 7. Although when a woman is pregnant, she can transmit negative feelings to her baby if she has them during her pregnancy, apparently, some say that that has some sort of effect,
@rekhum (2420)
• India
13 Mar 13
You should also check out Russell Peter's show. He jokes about parenting in different societies and it is really funny and makes sense. I think it's in his 'Red, Black & White' edition.
@rekhum (2420)
• India
13 Mar 13
yes you should be able to watch some of his stand-ups on youtube. However, you may not be able to watch the entire editions as they are lengthy. Try torrent or some other sources..So far i have watched 3 of his editions. 'Green Card', 'Red ,Black and White' and 'Outsourced'. Let me know if you find it, and i'll do some research for you here..
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
13 Mar 13
That video was disgusting and does NOT represent the way American children are at all. This discussion is very discriminating and judgmental and aimed at putting down American parents. I am American and I raised 4 girls as a single mom. All 4 of my girls are grown now and are very responsible and respectful people. I never used spanking as a form of discipline as you suggest is the "right way to discipline" kids. It isn't the right way to discipline kids at all. Spanking is actually NOT illegal in America as one person here suggested. Beating a child is and it should be. I never used either method. If you take the time to teach your kids right from wrong from the start and show them by example the right way to be then your kids won't turn out like the ones in this video. If they do turn out like the ones in this video then they need help and should have gotten it long before they reached the point of the behavior that is shown in this video. Any parent that waits until a child reaches this sort of extreme behavior and then chooses to deal with the problem by going on a talk show like Maury, well...there ya go and you have to wonder why the kid is like he/she is??? This is not at all typical of how American Children are and you need to stop knocking America.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
13 Mar 13
yes...being involved is key. Communicate...even the negative and maybe especially the negative opens the door to valuable conversation. You were smart to sit and watch southpark with your child as opposed to forbidding it. Like you said, the minute something is forbidden, that is when it gains appeal.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
13 Mar 13
There is so much more exposure to things and it's the kids that don't have strong parents that our kids kind of fall into. Because it's new, it's wrong and there is an element of that wrong that makes it attractive. It goes beyond teaching them young, it's constantly being involved in their lives at their level and teaching them right from wrong.
When Southpark hit the airwaves, my son's friends talked about it. I had heard about the show and didn't like what was hearing, but caught him watching it so sat down and watched it with him. In the end, there is honestly a moral lesson in it. After watching it a few times and talking to my son about it he saw the show from a different view point. It's opening their eyes to things and it's a continusous process because their lives are changing so much and they are exposed to so many more things than we were as kids.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
13 Mar 13
Thats right you are so right. I kind of wondered how they got that worse too. Somehow i dont think its quite realistic. Like how would they even learn how to roll the weed or smoke it if they hadn't been taught, and who teaches that to kids, i dont know, i just dont know,
@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
13 Mar 13
Kids have no respect because they watch their leaders have no respect, no wonder the prisons are filling up with people who don't respect authority. My kids learn respect, it isn't given or taken away, its earned. I've seen some kids who need their backsides spanked and who cares what society says, its a child who is learning. Some learn the easy way but some have to learn the hard way. It builds character if done right, it doesn't destroy their identity like some would say.
@gitfiddleplayer (10362)
• United States
13 Mar 13
I've only slapped them when they were mouthing off, its only happened once for each of my kids. It only takes once. Beating your kids is against their well being, disciplining them is not. A firm hand will go a long way with directing your kids.
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
13 Mar 13
You live in America and it seem you have grown your kids the proper way. I want to ask you did you ever slap them so that they behave? The way I was grown up is that I got a slap for every wrong thing I did, especially if I repeated that wrong thing. I honestly would want to grow my future kids the same way if they misbehave that is. I also want to migrate to America, so how does one get around the law not to beat kids if you want to grow them correctly.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
12 Mar 13
Kids misbehaving like this are either spoiled by their parents or simply has some psychological problems. This is obviously an abnormal way of how a 7 year old should be. And parents with this kind of children should be alarmed. They need to level up their way of disciplining their kids before these kids turn into monsters.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
13 Mar 13
Hitting the kids will never help them to be disciplined. It would only cause the children to completely stay away from their parents. Good communication is necessary. it may be difficult at first, but a parent must learn to build a better relationship with their kids by constantly talking to them and knowing what is in their minds and hearts all the time.
A defiant kid needs a lot of training to do. Sometimes, a therapist would come in handy in such situation.
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
13 Mar 13
Thats right, this is easier said than done, and apparently, i cant even think of a way to fix these children. Prevention is better than cure.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
13 Mar 13
I guess the correct term would be 'homes for troubled children' where they under go behavior modification. AKA give them a clue that their behavior is unaccptable.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
14 Mar 13
I tend to feel like there are some times that all children disrespect their parents, but I feel that the examples that are seen here are the result of bad parenting and not just the normal disrespect that children will show toward their parents from time to time.
I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with having a boyfriend at seven years old, but mom should not allow her daughter to wear short skirts. The parents of the little boy that hits when he doesn't get his way should have never tolerated this kind of behavior when he was younger.
I really do think that the majority of major misbehavior that children exhibit is something that is the result of bad parenting.
@ET28LV (1890)
• Latvia
13 Mar 13
Of course it is very sad to look video like this. In my opinion the main problem is kids parents and the nowadays society. If there are families where woman's don't have husbands it's hard to take care for kids. Because, fathers usually can say some stronger word to kids. But, look to nowadays society they don't show better example. Where kids learn all this stuff? From bad TV shows where also society make examples. The kids need to be disciplined from "baby feet". Parents don't need to spoil their kids and they should use belt in ways when kids do something wrong so they will understand what is good and bad.
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
14 Mar 13
What a kid
The parent should be guilty, it's their duty to teach the children how to behave to other people (friend, parent, other adult people). When children is doing or saying something that they suppose not saying or doing, there must be something wrong in the family. The parent do not give good role model to the children and let them grow and learn from what they see and what they hear.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
13 Mar 13
I reallĂy don't understand why parents aren't educating and raising their children better... now kids in my country could steal from you, beat weaker kids really bad, curse, drink, smoke, stomp on your foot while running around in stores... with their parents not telling them a single word to stop. Some crazy-.ss trashy parents even encourage them doing so, because in their view it means that their kids are going to be confident, and they won't let anyone tell them what they should do. They even disrespect teachers...
@randomarts09 (1405)
• Indonesia
15 Mar 13
This child needs some discipline. They need to do it fast before this child is turning so misbehaving and no one can control him anymore. Maybe his parents spoiled him too much since he was small so he turned out like this. Or someone taught him or being his role model to misbehave in this way.
@hepworth99 (3)
•
13 Mar 13
I am disgusted by the behaviour of the children in the video that swear all the time and hit their parents. Can't believe they smoke and drink alchohol. The first kid said his favourite drink was whisky. I was shocked when he said that. By smoking and drinking they won't live that long and as they think that they are so good but they are not and they need to grow up. The parents should be allowed to hit there children as the children are hitting them.