In need of advice...

Many times in life, this can be a Big issue, and many times will prevent someone, especially the wife from pursuing their dreams and goals they are really wanting to accomplish. I think over all the 2 people never talk about this, and instead the woman just does as the man wants and often ends up feeling cheated. Instead if they can talk it out and try and help each other see their are Goals and Dreams they would like to accomplish then it would be a better world for the both of them. I have learned over the yrs. there are many times you have to try something and face some disappointments, but know it was worth it to keep on trying.

Hi there Ayeeesha! I agree that if a person really loves you, he will not stop you from realizing your dreams. It would be really hard especially when there's a kid involved since, of course, someone has to take care of the child. I guess it would take a lot of effort from each side but the couple just need a resolution. But, I do not think giving up your dreams would be a valid resolution for that situation.

Hello Ayeeesha, can you be more specific on what set-up means for you since this topic is posted on relationship and you are also talking about dreams and passion. What I can just tell briefly is that if a person loves you truly, he or she accepts you as you are and that includes your dreams and passion as you also share it to him or her. I just don't understand a person who limits another and can't accept if that dream and passion will also include the love of your life.

That would depend on other factors as well. One should really know if the dream she has will be really beneficial for both of them or not. And I guess, a loving and understanding partner should allow his/her partner achieve her dreams and be supportive with it.

I'm gonna fight for my dreams, but only if that would not hinder our relationship physically... if he just doesn't approve because of jealousy or because he prefers an ordinary life so much that he would sabotage my dreams, I would break up.

hey dear. many a times there are such situations when we are confused between our mind and heart. but i usually do what my heart says. it can be any side.. may be sometime give up something for my partner and sometimes having a fight with my partner for that thing or passion.. and solving fight after done with my choice hihihi. so i think we should make a balance between heart and mind. should think both ways on both matters and then decide what wouldbe fair for ourselves ( me and my partner ).