Family problems... What to do? Mom greedy, Dad don't call, brother don't care...

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So i just moved out almost 9 months ago for the first time. From my parents house that is. And at first my stepmom, Well mom if you will, would call all the time to check up on me. And she would always make sure i was doing the right thing... You know parent stuff. Well in the past few months she has been acting more and more uh rude if you will. well I'll start from the beginning... Almost two months ago she asked me to watch my parents house... Well my dad did. I said yes. And then after i did. She asked me for more and more things from me. Well last month my grandfather passed away. Her fatehr. And she got upset which is fine. And she got upset when i couldn't make it to see him before he passed on. Well after a while of him passing. Supposedly she's about to get forclosed and blames me for not paying my phone bill to them... They pay for my phone sorta. I am under their contract with att. And I have been trying to pay rent instead of that. Well somewhere along the lines of calling and seeing how i am it's gone to just say," hey have you got your income tax yet? We really need the money." and stuff like that. SO i think to myself and say what happen to hi how are you. Or how whats up. No it's where's my money. Oh and by the way your brother goes into surgery tomorrow. Is that greedy, rude Or what? I mean I understand I need to pay for my phone. But the forclosure guilt trip thing i know has to been a while of not paying. And she likes to spend money where no money is... I don't know... I just feel like she has lost it. And on top of that my dad don't call my brother don't call noone in my family calls me and checks up anymore... I mean I don't either so i understand that but in order to get some you have to give some... I used to always do stuff for my entire family and now none of them have the guts just to check in on me... Sorry for ranting.. But what should I do? I mean my stepmom just asks for money, dad doesn't call unless it's been a while, and brother just don't care....