Finding girl for my son so early

Your new daughter in law may think she will marry into something she can't handle. Helping someone that is unable to get around can be time consuming and she may feel it could hurt their lifestyle. Maybe this person isn't right for the family.

Your son is still young, I believe. Give him more time to marry soon. I do wish that he can find the right girl for her and I can sya that the girl is lucky for having in-laws like you. Your anticipation of having a daughter in the form of daughter-in-law is a proof of that.

If your son finds a girl that is truly kind and genuine and is right for your son, then she will accept your wife, regardless! It's all about acceptance, you accept people for who they are, not whether they have disabilities or not. I am sure your son will find someone special, but not to rush into it. I hope one day you will be blessed with a loving daughter in law, and maybe in the future be blessed with grandchildren!

I can imagine it's hard when taking care of family is part of a person's culture. Your son is still young and I'm sure in time there will be the right person for him that will fill all your hearts with joy. Your wife seems independent even with her disability. Bless her heart.

Hi Roshigo. Well I think it will only act to your son's advantage. A girl who would be willing to marry your son and in addition to that takes the responsibility of taking car of her mother in law, will definitely be one with good heart and soul. In that way you can get idea about whether the girl you want your son to get married is good for him or not. Have a nice day ... SuperShames

Sir,your son will surely get a good and great loving wife.There are many who would love to have agreat mother in law like you wife.I can understand what you are going through.But i am happy as a father you are taking care of these things.I am also sharing my life with you.I lost my dad 7 years ago and well i am going to be 30 in few days.My mother and brother are only people i have in this world.I do not have any relatives who could help me.Unfortunately for me , none of my marriage plans happened.I do not think i am lucky plus i am not super rich as well.I was good in my studies ,so got a job while i was studying for engineering.After a million proposals, nothing happened.Sometimes its horoscopes, and sometimes girl has bigger desires and given that i am just 5'8 and not tall but fair , that does not help either.Plus when you do not have anything to boast and being naive or nice at heart is not something people want these days.And none i think i am more destined to believe that i may not marry at all.But i am fine with those things.I do not think much on those lines, though had my dad been there, he might have taken the steps needed.Well,sir do take care of family and do steps as needed.Thanks!

Is arranged marriage prevalent in your community or is your son going to make his own choice without involving you? If it is arranged marriage then, you can slowly start looking for him but don't be in a hurry.See that the temperament of the girl suits the boy ; this is very important.

Many people are so unforgiving of what they do not understand, and that is tragic. I tried to be a good daughter-in-law, but my mother-in-law didn't like me, nor would she tell anyone her reasons. And once I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, I was shunned by my in-laws, and it did hurt. I look forward to when I can be a mother-in-law to my daughter's future life partner. I learned what NOT to do. You are correct: God is great. Your son will pick someone that has qualities similar to his mother, someone to honor and love both of you.

Does your son want to marry this early in life? I know that marriages in India are arranged many times, but maybe it would be better if you asked your son`s opinion up to some point. I remember an indian mylotter who was very depressed and sad because he had to marry and he wanted to wait a bit more. If your wife is so loving, I`m sure the wife you xhoose for your son will be happy.

Your son is still very young so there's no need to rush for marriage. With the way he cares for you and your wife I think you would be part of his concern too in choosing a girl to marry. And, with the kindness of your wife, your would be daughter in law would feel lucky to find a caring and understanding mother in law who would help her set up the foundation of her married life.

Indeed he will. I believe someone whom your son will share deep feelings naturally for, hopefully, life with will come anyway regardless if you wait or delay for it. We can make plans as what we thinkwould be best, but there will always be God's Will to determine what really is the best for us.

I think you and your wife are very largeminded,your wife is a kind-hearted womam and mother,your daughter-in-law will be very beatific.In my country,I know there are so many contradictions between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law,I hope I can get along well with my future mother-in-law. In the end,I wish your son has a good marriage.

that is so nice of your wife that she is so caring and loving. I really wish if you have no daughter, God bless you with a daugher in law but it is good to be kind with her and except her as a daughter, as Indian people used to behave not well with their daughter in laws. I hope that you and your wife, be pattern of love and respect for her and for your son and teach them about loving each other, but not making problems between them as other indian in laws used to do. Good day.

I believe that a good wife comes from God. If your son is already looking for a girl to be his partner in life then he must pray to God to give it to him. If in case there is not yet any good girl in his life then it's not yet the time that God wants him to get married. I know your son will find a good girl in due time.

In our Asian society it is still the daughter-in-law who takes care of her mother-in-law or father-in-law. However, if the daughter-in-law is also working and getting a substantial salary to contribute to the family income will not be wise for us to quit her job to take care of her mother-in-law. The situation will get worse if she were to quit her job and the young couples have children then money problems crop up. Worse the young wife earns higher salary and quit her high paying job to take care of her mother-in-law and could not make ends meet later. Is it a wise move, eh? The logical solution is to get a nurse or a maid to help out. God bless you and your family.

I don't think that your wife's disability will be anything that will make it more difficult for your son to find a husband. I know that you might be right that there are some people in the world that would not want to help in taking care of their disabled in-laws, but for the most part I don't think that this is something that would stop love. Please encourage your wife to not feel sorry for herself or for your son as I really think that her fears are going to be a non-issue.

Hmmm first time I am reading a husband saying about her wife she is soft and loving nice your wife is lucky my hubby says me danger wife ehehhe....just joking and laughing hehe.... If your son is start the job or business then 24 years of age is good for marriage. Friend what happened with your wife(my friend). Really if partner is understanding person then life will flies soon happily.

He will someday he will meet a girl who not judge the book by it's cover. There will always nice and loving girl for nice and loving boy. There will always nice and loving daughter in law for a nice and loving parent in law

thats really nice to hear that you have got such a loving wife. and of course for your son, if his wife is kind and loves family then for sure she will never think negatively but would love your wife a lot. wish you all the good luck.

I'm convinced your son will go extra mile to find someone that is willing to extend that love to his mother. Your wife shouldn't worry much because God is always with her.