are they not aware that they are being insensitive...

Philippines
March 14, 2013 12:22pm CST
Good day Fellow Mylotters, It is really annoying to meet insensitive people. Hence, they doesn't even matter if they throw words impolitely. I mean, they don't think that, what they are doing are somehow rude. These people are very disgusting and revolting. Thus, most of the time, I am asking myself why they are like that. Are they not aware that they are insensitive. I mean, this attitude is just simple and a self imposed, and yet it can't be practice by most people...
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@natliegleb (5175)
• India
14 Mar 13
they will realise after some time and it is only a matter of time before they can even think about it,dont worry,it is impractical although
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• Philippines
15 Mar 13
yes it is really impractical but sometimes it is really annoying.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Mar 13
Because they insensitive and they think they are always right. Those kind of people are too proud of themselves. They think they are perfect and haven't done anything wrong ever- not even once in their entire life. They think all the people around them are dumb and they are the smartest person on earth. Yes, they exist- that's the bad part of the truth.
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• Philippines
15 Mar 13
indeed. those people are really too proud. they didn't even think that they are starting to hurt their fellow as well.
@Arieles (2473)
• United States
14 Mar 13
I honestly think they just don't care. We will never know why people behave a certain way, they just do. We can't change them. The only person we can change is ourselves. We just have to accept them the way they are and how we respond to them. It may hurt us, and we may not like it, but that's where we have the choice to let them in our lives or really think.."will this matter tomorrow?" Will I see this person tomorrow? In the future? I know it's hard, as I have a difficult time with this myself. I can only hope to handle these insensitive people with a grain of salt.
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@meumeu25 (917)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Mar 13
I agree with Jaiho, those people are too proud of themselves and self-centered, they think they are admirable when they behave like they are high and mighty. I have a feeling that they know what they are doing, they just want to bully and get people's attention.
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@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
Hi ! They are the people who have too much confidence in themselves ,thinking that they are always right , thinking that they knew everything and that they can be rude anytime they wanted to. These are the inconsiderate and selfish people . So sad for this kind of people , Karma will strike them someday.
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
Hi Angelpink, Your words are really great. That is the term, "Karma". How I wish, their realization period comes very soon.
@yutamina (12)
• Vietnam
15 Mar 13
because that behavior make them feel special. When behaving like that, everyone look at them more and they feel that they are special. Just ignore them
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
hi there, the best thing to do is to ignore them but what if situation dictates that you always meets them..
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
15 Mar 13
Some people are very insensitive but they are totally unaware of it; the reasons are many.In some cases, it is an extraordinary love for the self, in other cases it is self-interest and focus on self that takes precedence over anything else, and in others it is a desire for power and control over others-if you notice people who always want to be in control are also quite insensitive. People who have had a spoilt upbringing are also insensitive.Unfortunately some people live in a total sense of self delusion that they are unaware that that they are being insensitive.Basically they just do not care.We should be the same way with such people and do not give too much of our heart.
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
17 Mar 13
I have the solution. Make them your BEST FRIEND. It is easier for a friend to show them the view they are missing.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
15 Mar 13
Open your heart to others, my friend. Everyone has private character. We should learn how to sociable to each others.
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
hi, your statements says something. at one point your words are true.
@Janebaby (47)
• China
15 Mar 13
We must admit that there are many different kinds of people exist in the world. We can not change them but we can choose how treat them.Keep close or keep some distance.
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
good point. i guess, distance will play a big role in here. i just hope they would also make their selves to get lost.
• Canada
15 Mar 13
Hi airasheila There will always be rude people I am like you I sometimes think how can a person be that insensitive, maybe they really don't know they are acting like that, or some people are button pushers they intentionally try to get you rattled I try to stay away from these kind of people I find they drain me.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
We need people like that to tell us that being insensitive is not good. Through this kind of person we are able to reflect on how we deal with other people. We have to accept they do really exist. I have known people who are like this and it does annoy me sometimes however if they are really like that, no matter how we talk to them about their insensitivity, we cannot change them at all.
• India
15 Mar 13
I don't know what they think but I can guess they suddenly not thinking about others they just thinking abou themselves
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
Being insensitive is really bad. Honestly speaking, sometimes I can also be insensitive especially in a debate, I always know I'm right and I'm the perfect. Lets face it guys, being insensitive is a bad attitude but even ourselves can't avoid it. I know some of you guys who have commented too are sometimes insensitive too.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
14 Mar 13
I don't think they know, that is why they are insensitive in the first place. They derive happiness in not caring for what the other person would feel so they just don;t stop and consider what they are about to say or do. People like them are so tempting to treat with a dose of their own medicine.
• United States
15 Mar 13
I think they know but the thing is they just don't care about your feelings or other peoples feelings. They just say whatever they want and not even thinking if it is good or what. They just dont care. I hate those kind of attitude. And because they think that they are always right thats why they act like that.