"back stub friend"
By giex22
@giex22 (273)
Cebu, Philippines
March 14, 2013 9:25pm CST
During my college year I meet this girl and we were friends until we graduated and find a job.Some people always ask me that why you accept that girl to be your friend and that she's always making gossips to people making a back stub she's not good for you. I just answered them, no she's a good friend to me and I know her since we are in college and also we are group mates.
I don't think that it would happened to me. Suddenly, I didn't expect it to be just a click, I heard a rumors and that the topic is me a big mark suddenly pop up to my mind and that their are no other person knows about it, but it hurts me so much when my mother scolded me about that I don't know what to do because most of the rumors are all lies and my heart break into pieces it is just hurt me so much not because of the rumors but because my mother doesn't listen to me instead, she believe to my liar friend.
I've just realized it that she do back stub me. In all my helping hand to her she just replace it with a back stub, now i am cursing that girl and I jut hope and wish time would go back so that I can correct it that is the most painful thing happened to me.
Do you ever have a friend like this making a BIG STUB ON YOUR BACK?
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5 responses
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
None that I know of. I don't make liars and back stabbers my friends to begin with.
I have also experienced bad and false rumors being spread around about me. I didn't give a d*mn. I just ignored the rumors and moved on. I think that I don't need to disprove anything that isn't true. That's a waste of my time. And people who believe rumors are stupid. I am sorry.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
I am sorry to say that word. I meant to say that people who believe in rumors without even looking at the facts are no better than the spreader of the rumor. So don't get too affected by people who believe rumors because they are not entirely without fault either.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
16 Mar 13
Don't worry so much. Once your mother realizes the truth, she will be come back to you. Besides, your mother is at fault too. She shouldn't believe something from hearsay and assume that they are true without even listening to you. Let her cool down enough for her to come to reason.
This is the time you will realize the people who are truly your friends and those who are not. Stay away from friends who betray you. You are better off without them.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
15 Mar 13
Rumors are a big impact on me though some of that is not true but it keeps me on strike and that my own mother believe that and not on my side. Sorry is accepted. Though i don't want to be affected but unfortunately it hurts me a lot. Now i recover from that situation.
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
15 Mar 13
Well I have to say it takes time and years to know just who your real friends are it took me over 5 years to realize the girl I really thought was my friend ended up to be a back stabbing, liar and just all bad things user too!! Read some of my posts here just be careful out there Now I know who my true friends are and that is my family, husband and cats!!!! 
Take care
Take care @giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
15 Mar 13
Hahaha your cat is a true friend really also dogs. Thanks jahernandezrivas for your opinion. Truly finding a true friend is a hard time because you must know her/him in a different ways. It is just so happened that we trust to those people that are liars and more.
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
15 Mar 13
Yes I agree they will never hurt or lie to you and always love you the cats and dogs!! He he l.o.l. 
But so true!! Gotta love them! And you are welcome like I said it can take years to know who your true friends really are! Hope you are doing well and having a good day.
But so true!! Gotta love them! And you are welcome like I said it can take years to know who your true friends really are! Hope you are doing well and having a good day. 
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
19 Mar 13
Hi,
I think there is no friend of mine who is making a big stub on my back. And if there is any I don't know. But I know there are some people who pretend with us a s they are our well wishers but they are not. i had this experience in my office. These people are jealous of us because of our progress. They feel insecure because they feel that we are better than them. Instead of being grateful to you for your help she is stubbing in your back. You should not keep friendship with her. She doesn't deserves it.
@giex22 (273)
• Cebu, Philippines
15 Mar 13
Well that is good for you and it just matter to a person if they want to back stab on you or not we can't easily determine them. I am good to all my friends its just somehow you'll meet a person that is like that and unfortunately for me I've meet one.
@TLilly12 (1229)
• United States
15 Mar 13
No I don't have back stabbing friends, I don't have friend period, I am by my self most of the time, when I want to go shopping, I am by myself, when ever I want to do some thing, I am by my self I am not around any one, people have lied on me, back stabbed me, so I like being a lone, and it feel good to, do things alone that way people can't hurt me.
