I am introvert and I do not konw how to talk wiht a girl , who can help me

China
March 15, 2013 12:25am CST
it has troubled me for a long time ,please help me
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Jenny1015
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
Just come out of your shell and let people know who you really are. Do not give the people a false impression about you. Enjoy being with friends. Do not limit yourself in trying to find out things about the world. When you feel you are now seeing the world in a different perspective, then it means you have become a better person.
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charmerwang
@charmerwang (9)
• China
16 Mar 13
actually I would say a lot with my very very close friends such as my roommates,for I have stayed with them for a long time,but if they were the person I meet for the first time,I will won't have much to say ,e ..I can't express myself very well in English,hope you can understand, -_-! ^_^
Jenny1015
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
16 Mar 13
Just act natural. Don't make yourself too reserved when speaking with girls you are interested in. Girls like guys who knows how to bring a good conversation. You would get noticed if you tell a lot of things about your interests and dreams.
Secret
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
15 Mar 13
Oh. Do not think a lot. Hmmmm. I think you are just shy and you have no self confidence to that girl and that is what I know, but you know what? Even if I am introvert type of person, I can still express my true feelings in other ways, but not the obvious way...... ha ha ha
charmerwang
@charmerwang (9)
• China
16 Mar 13
yeah!you are right,I'm shy and I'm trying to expressing myself, ^_^
atv818
@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
19 Mar 13
You are introvert because you always assume that another person will not like you immediately. Try to have a deep sincerity in knowing other people and you will never go wrong. Always remember: When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves. Just be yourself ... Good luck!
jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
16 Mar 13
Try to talk with girls and feel ease,it would be helpful if you try it.Thus they will feel comfortable getting along with you.Many boys has the same problem while they found it's better solved after tried to do that.Good luck to you,friend.Have a good day.
Aja103654
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
practice. talk to her as if she is a normal person. Just be comfortable but don't be too comfortable.
nyssa102
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
25 Mar 13
I think it would help if you were to try to take an acting class at a community college or visit some meetups in your city. you can do a search for meetups in your area. Good luck! A good improv class or club can help you get out of your shell.