Best way to turn off the attraction of the opposite gender?
By anime1990
@anime1990 (70)
Philippines
March 15, 2013 6:39am CST
Hello to all , opinions or advice are needed. I'm an ordinary average girl who does not drink alcohol and discos, wears sexy clothes, stay out late until dawn. The complete opposite of a typical girl who likes to have fun. In short, I'm a VERY BORING person an I'm proud of it. Just one thing that bothers me, attraction of the opposite gender.
I've been single up until now, I'm not in a hurry for a relationship and I don't care. It just annoying that some guys doesn't seem to understand the phrase " not interested in a relationship". I look for ways so that I wont stand out and I told them what kind of boring life I have but they are still interested in me.
3 responses
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
Just ignore them. You don't have to change who you are for them. Just be yourself and be firm. If they can't understand, make them... with your arnis sticks.
@anime1990 (70)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
Great! So I'm going to have to bring my arnis sticks everyday....
@jiiiiin (586)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
Maybe you see yourself as a boring person but that's not some guys are seeing when they are looking at you. Maybe they think you're interesting because you are not like typical girls. Just ignore them when they are still bugging you, sooner or later they will stop.
@ayeeesha (1127)
• Philippines
15 Mar 13
Some guys can be really persistent especially when they like a particular girl. If you're not really interested in getting into a relationship, just be frank and say you're not interested then ignore them. Don't send signals that a guy might think you're into him as well.
