Damage control

@vsraovsr (734)
India
March 16, 2013 2:43am CST
One kid has been spoiled by his mother b'coz of excessive disciplinary measures. Will she be able to do the damage control now.Suggest some measures to be adopted to start from scrath.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
16 Mar 13
Mother should change her attitude and it should be conveyed properly to the child. Give the child abundance of love and care instead of scolding and beating. It is difficult to change the kid’s attitude once it is spoiled so the mother should be ready to change her completely then only can find a good result. Anything is excess is dangerous, we have to keep a balance
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fantabulus
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
16 Mar 13
I agree with you sree mother should be conveyed properly to the child because the child can share their feelings with mother. Good thought and I think you are great mother for your child. They are lucky can I ask how many child do you have? I also love my daughters and talk with them politely on any topic even it may be wrong but I say to them why it is wrong. Balancing is necessary in everything.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
16 Mar 13
Hi fanta dear, Glad to see you here. I think you were busy with your daughter's studies. Is the exam over? I have two kids.
coxjoseph5
@coxjoseph5 (209)
• United States
16 Mar 13
in disciplining a child, you need to be firm and consistant, not to us a belt or something else. you don't have to beat the to get them to mind,but you must be firm and mean what you say every time. don't play games it will affect their whole life, and let themknow you love them. the most important.
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dandan07
@dandan07 (1906)
• China
17 Mar 13
Giving him some chances to be hurt by the damage (small ones), he may be learned something from the hurt which will help him to away from making damage.
dainy1313
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
17 Mar 13
Hello Vsraovsr I hope that you are fine. Lot of tenderness and true love. Blessings Vsraovsr... dainy
natliegleb
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
16 Mar 13
yes the discipline is very important and need of the hour with some good adoptive measures
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roshigo58
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
17 Mar 13
Hi, You are right. Strict or excessive disciplinary methods spoil the child. Child should not be disciplined by force or by beating or threshing him. He should be disciplined by love and care. when we force the child he try to show his anger and make more and more mistakes. With soft words, with love and care kids can be disciplined and they can become good human beings.