Is this good child sleep between parents?

Hi dear, The good part is, those kids sleeping in between parents are secured and have confidence in life more. In that way, there is no harm to sleep them with parents. The other part, in my opinion parents should be matured enough to handle the situation. They must make sure about the privacy to avoid such embarrassing moments. I read once an answer by a psychologist to a question by a lady, the psychologist told the lady to behave normally with the kid as if nothing happened. If the child asks any question, answer it properly. No need to feel any uneasy or embarrassing. But my question, how many of us are able to handle the situation normally? How many parents may be ready to talk their children on the same subject. So where we need changes? Considering these things it is safe to allow the kids to sleep separately after a particular age.

i think there are nothing wrong about that unless they are still kids but for teenagers i think it not be necessary to do that

I had 4 children and all of them slept in their own room from the time they were 3 month old before then I had the baby in my bedroom but baby slept in it's own crib not in my bed! if we teach the children from the start they will be fine and so will be the parents.

Oh uh....that's the bad part (hahaha) Kids should be in a separate room as they grow up. But some kids like to sleep with their parents even if they are old enough to sleep alone. Well, my kids some times wants to sleep with me (good thing I am alone in my room) hahaha have a great weekend sis

This is a warning to all parents who sleep with children and need to be organised in their private life more carefully. Here in cities like Mumbai, people learned to adjust the life with less space and inconveniences. Majority of people are just living in 1 room kitchen flats and as many are living still less life conditions. So, for many people it is practically difficult to manage their life with an organised structure. Parents should observe many other situations and should convince that they are not disturbed either. From my personal experience, I got 2 children aged 17 years boy and daughter with 14 years. We, myself and wife and both my children sleep together, ever since they are born. We got a bigger coat and accommodate 4 adults easily. Though we planned to keep the children to a different room, we don't like doing it. All my other family members and knowing friends suggested that we have to separate them and it had to be done so earlier. But we both don't feel like doing so. We live just like a normal husband and wife and life is so normal with all life requirements. But never had a chance to the children to know anything. That is why I told you that we should understand things better. My daughter moved to a different room for 2-3 days, but she come back to us. And my son want to sleep with me and even daughter also. Yes, I have no hesitation and even my wife also oked to it. Any away, I know people won't support this much on various grounds. But we all are having no objection, I am thinking let it go for some time more till they want to sleep separately.

Kids should have their own bed in a seperate room from the parents.the childs will can be close, not necesairly intimate, and parents but close. i like to feel my wife's body next to me. The child should sleep alone.

Undoubtedly this is a good topic. In cramp houses where there's not enough spaces for sleeping quarters because of poverty and other reasons, the parents are given no other option but to sleep together with children. Still despite the situation the parents can still do their normal night function. In the wee hours of the night when everybody are having their sweet, sweet sleep, the parents must take this opportunity to perform the love act fully and perfectly as fast as possible with no love sounds and with less bodily movements. The position is up for the couple to choose. Props such as 2 pillows are important to represent the couple who are on duty. The bottom line is to do it fast and sweet with minimal love trimmings. The act needs full cooperation and practice.

While I know that there are a lot of people that are huge proponents of attachment parenting, that is not something that I embraced when my children were little. I never did allow co-sleeping with my children because I was afraid that if I allowed them to sleep with us when they were very small this would be something that they would come to expect when they were a little bit older. I find that I was always able to sleep better when my little ones were in a bassinet close to my bed instead of actually sharing my bed with me.

Surekha beti In my house once a kid is around 5 years young, we put her in a different bed or if possible in different room , and if we make love , it is done in total darkness, so that the kid can't see at all. Yes the kids now sing, 'choli ke niche kya hai'; etc openly, it is effect of tv; In 1978 i was in a city in rented house, my neighbor was a post master, he had 8 kids, the youngest was 10 years than, he used to sleep with them and saw every thing, what his parets did. He told this to all kids in that colony, we knew it and told his father. How sad

Exactly! Couples should refrain from being romantic when they are sleeping with their child. It is definitely not right to be that intimate when their kid could actually wake up and catch them doing some stuff.

Hiii talkative women how are you? Nice discussion I also watch this program my MIL also like this serial. I think parents should try to sleep in other room if they wants to show their feelings because really new generation child is intelligent and they understand everything in teen age. Parents should control themselves. We both are lucky because my both daughter was sleeping near their grandparents. When she was in teen age now both are young so sleep alone.

My siblings and I slept between the parents like that when we were younger. Then we moved on to sleeping in our own rooms. I understand kids want to sleep with their parents but it's not good for the parents at all. It's important for a married couple to have their time alone at night to be able to be romantic with each other. Babies can sleep in their crib and young kids can sleep in their own rooms. It wouldn't hurt if the kid sleeps with their parents once or twice but every night? No, that's bad and it also could lead to the child feeling attached or dependent on the parents. It's best for the child to sleep in their own room, more importantly for the parents to have their own privacy at night.

I don't think it is good for any child over the age of 2 to sleep with the parents or in the same room

yes u r right Surekharathi that growing children should sleep in seperate room because its their learning period and when they learn they want to apply.Parents don't know that what would be the result of this romantic activity in front of children. We should be very careful because there are many cases we see in our daily life and in drama and film also. children are not stupid they have become very sharp.

You are right parents should be sleep their child alone. If spare room available than no problem but some one have not spare room child should be sleep on another bed.

I also liked sleeping with my parents when I was younger. I think, I was already 9 then and I still wanted to sleep with them. But I always found myself alone in the middle of my sleep. My dad would carry me out of their bed to be able to have their husband and wife intimate moments. They never said that I should sleep alone. I just got used to it, waking up alone and finally decided to also sleep in my own bed.:)