This old woman is in love with my boyfriend

As he is the one being chased,it is your boyfriends duty to set this woman straight. Not yours. He may be enjoying the free gifts and attention from the older woman. If he is truly bothered by all this, he isn't trying hard enough to get out of it.

If your guy is allowing himself to be with this other women, I think its time for you to clarify with the guy if he has any problem with you. If he really loves you and have respect for your relationship, he won't allow that. He is the guy and he's supposed to be the one in control.

I wonder how old is she, and how did this woman got to know your boyfriend? is she a neighbor or someone from work? i wonder how an old woman would even be able tto know where your boyfriend hangs out if they are not even talking that much. probably your boyfriend also was too friendly with her and she had thought or had took it differently, a hint that there could be a chance between them? Your boyfriend should talk to her and that he should tell her to stop bothering you both. it can't be anything more and it should be clear to her. Now if your boyfriend is not telling her to stop sending those gifts, of course she would presume that he is okay with it.

How old is she and how old is your boyfriend? Is she a friend of his parents? Sometimes people use the word "love" in a different way. But, unfortunatly, some people are just plain nuts. It seems that you will have to ask your BF first and then confront her.

My aunt had this same problem a few years ago with an elderly lady that really liked her boyfriend. Not sure how she handled it since she isn't with him anymore. There isn't too much you can do, if it gets to a "stalking" point then you could possibly take out a temporary restraining order. I think as long as you just smile and ignore it you will be fine though; she is probably harmless.

I think this old lady feels lonely and because your boyfriend was just nice with her, polite, respectful she felt is ok to spend some time with him. Your boyfriend should talk with her, maybe she missunderstood him, he's in a relationship with you and if you can't take this any longer he should understand.

hi loy, Welcome to mylot! As long as your boyfriend is ignoring her that will be fine But if she stalking him or doing something not so good your boyfriend can sue her. happy mylotting keep posting

You should talk with your boyfriend about this. Tell him that he should do his best to stay very far away from this woman. And if you have to you may even have to talk with the woman. I hope that things will improve for the two of you.

Ignore the old woman. She's probably lonely anyway, trying to look for affection, that's why does those things. Just don't mind her.