Angry, angry and angry

well iv just get my head handed to me i went to have tea the spoon was gone from the sugar i say i did not need it and then i get yelled at that I am a sick b and the one for men oh well i never opne my mouth in my own home again

Is your mom always like ever since you can remember, or is this just recently occur? She must be having some really serious problems at the moment if she's like that now. But if she has been acting like that from the start, then I think she could use some support by her family on how she can look at things differently to avoid passing on the negativity to the rest of the family.

Sad to hear that your mom is too angry. But, what can say is none is ideal and it's just bad that people blame each other for mistakes. It is more painful when the talking is about family. Maybe you can say your mother how painful she make you feel after all bad words what she is saying.

Sounds like my sister in law. And I really hate hearing her shout early in the morning. her kids go to school at 7am and has to leave the house by 6am. But she could not wake herself up at 5 am to prepare food for her kids. And so she always has to depend on me to wake her up. But sometimes, even if I did wake her up, she just couldn't. So she would be rushing to do things in as short as 30 minutes. What makes me feel bad about it is that she shouts at her kids and tell them things which could really be hurtful. It wasn't the kids fault if they are running late, right? She hasn't heated water for them to bathe, she has not cooked yet, so what could you expect?

I think your mother gets blinded by the anger and can't see more than her own opinion and that is maybe to much to bare for you and your family. I think you need to talk to her when she is in a relax mood and really tell her that she is like this when she gets angry and her words are really harsh. It isn't nice to hear bad words that comes from your parents. They hurt much more than strangers.

You love your mom and your mom love you. I think she doesn't real think you are dumb and idiot You don't know why she do like that ,so you feel unease . Maybe she just couldn't help herself when she is angry. You can tell your feeling to her or don't think too much of that, just understand she. (please tell me if where was wrong of my English )

People like that just want others to be as miserable as they are. They are possibly perfectionists. No one is perfect, that is what makes them who they are. A perfect person is bland and boring. Please never listen to those type of words she says, it is abusive. If a person doesn't feel well, they should never take it out on family. They are supposed to be lifted up and not put down. Encouraged and not verbally assaulted. I think your mom is stressed and needs some kind of therapy intervention. But the problem is getting her to go to someone who can help. As soon as you're old enough, just get a job and move on with your life. Stay away from her as much as possible, cause like your dad said it will probably only get worse. I wish I could hug you in person and tell you to stay strong and remember that you're a good person who isn't dumb or an idiot at all. You won't ever be that. I feel you are a good person with a good heart just by starting this conversation.

Hi, It is very bad that your mother gets angry always. She should overcome her anger. When she is angry, there are bad effects of anger for her health. She uses harsh words. Harsh words hurt others feelings and thus she lose respect from other family members. But all of you Should try to cool down your mother and keep quiet when she is angry.