The value of a person can only be recognized when he or she is about to die...
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
March 17, 2013 10:41am CST
I really can't grasp the reason why for some reason, the value of the person will only be recognized when he or she is about to die. I mean, those love and care will only be given thoroughly the moment they find out that the member of their family is about to die because of a certain illness. As they will not give a total care unless this things arises. Isn't that it is quite late to show or express your loved to your family members when he or she is already suffering from illnesses. Much worst, he or she might not appreciate it since his or her end is about to come.
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9 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
17 Mar 13
You might be right there. We realize that to late. When they are gone.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
21 Mar 13
good day to you mariaperalta,
although realization time comes but this is quite late somehow isn't it. you cannot turn back the old times.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
21 Mar 13
your right there. We need to live everyday like its our last...
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
26 Apr 13
for me actually don't need to come in a point to die but to gone,i always remember that the value of a person can only be recognized once the presence or the person will be gone,because i already experienced that before,i only found out his value when he was totally gone for me.
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
20 Mar 13
About this side of human, I must say that almost we're stupid :) We have many mistakes in our life and we don't know how to love people around us.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
19 Mar 13
You don't know the value of anything until you experience life 'without' (sin 
) it.
) it.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Mar 13
Hi,
When someone is normal and working all the time, that time we don't appreciate his work. But when he is ill we realize our mistake of not appreciating him. We understand the importance of that person when he is not normal. before we don't have the time to think about him. So we should be nice always with each other.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 13
Sheila...you are right, it also happen in my big family. When there are one member of my big family get severe sick and almost die, all big family member giving love and care. Most of them do not give their love and care when everything is okay. I think most of them busy with their business when all our family member all right. Most of them think that it is the best time to show their respect before they cannot do anything when he was die.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
I think it is part of human nature to be giving value only to a person once he is already sick and dying. But that should really not be the case. We should always acknowledge every bit of goodness and achievement of a person while he is still up and about so that he may feel his worth and feel that he is loved.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
Maybe, he can still appreciate it because he still saw the effort that his family or loved ones has shown to his approaching end in this world. It is too sad to think about this kind of situation. I don't think they have hearts, yeah, they have literally but it is so useless .
@niki5510 (61)
• Bulgaria
17 Mar 13
I think it`s in human nature to support and care for somebody who is in trouble and needs some help.Mercy makes us human.In everyday life we rearly find time to express our feelings thinking that they are obviuos.When we understand we a losing a beloved person we feel guilty for that.May be these are the reasons for us to show our love at the end.
