people who uses someone to move-on.. crap, right? :/

That sad part of that is a person 'needs' someone to feel complete. I don't know of any relationship that worked out when it started as a rebound. It's like watching a train wreak, you know the out come but you still have to watch it to see what happens.

Well, if both of them are open to the idea and they both know that what they have might only be for some short time only and they are still okay with it, then I guess it's fine. They're old enough to make mistakes as they want and to act on something that they think they should. But what is really sad here is when one of them is oblivious to the fact that the other one is just on a rebound. That is so unfair especially if the rebound person has been really nice.

I know the word 'addicted' gets thrown around a whole lot, and the phrase 'addicted to love' ... was that a Robert Palmer song? Huey Lewis? But we need to go to the definition of "addiction" search.mylot.com/search.aspx?t=web&k=addiction+definition&ref=mythociate "the continued use of a mood altering substance or behavior despite adverse dependency consequences" (Wikipedia). The behavior? the 'exclusive giving-&-receiving of love' that makes you 'happy' DESPITE the FACT that 'the more you commit to the relationship, the more you expect to get from it; SO the more you get from the relationship, the more you feel you have to give.' 'Reason' tells you that's not so, that you don't NEED to unite with someone else in order to be happy. But your body doesn't care what Reason thinks; your body needs to love & -to be loved as it FELT it did/was with your boyfriend. And really, you were 'born' BREAKING YOUR FIRST RELATIONSHIP. When you very-first came to be, you were living (like a cancer) off of the food & nutrients fed to you by your mother's blood. That is one of the things every body is trying to get back to ... maybe THAT's Heaven (like in The Butterfly Effect with Ashton Kutcher ... maybe in the Alternate Ending).

They do this because it's the easiest way to "get over" their past relationship. Some people are so used to being with someone that they can't seem to accept their being single. The break-up may have caused them to feel ugly and undesirable, so they believe that finding a new partner will make them feel better about themselves. What they don't realize is that it's just a temporary remedy and it would do more harm than good. In the end, it's either they'll realize that they don't love the new partner or that they're still in love with the ex. It is indeed unfair to the rebound guy/gal. I agree with you. It's better to let yourself heal first before entering a new relationship. It might take some time, but it's the best way to mend a broken heart.

I believe getting together with other people just to make oneself forget about the previous love is not a good act. There several reasons why I said so. For one, the act of using someone for one's personal goal has never been a righteous thing to do. Other than that, considering the unfair treatment, love that is given to the person being used while the person may be sincerely giving out his or her love. That is just too bad for them.

I have seen many people like this. And it is so obvious that they are just using other people. The sad part is the person they are using is the good person.

for sure they dont understand the value of relationships and also the company is quite bad at this time,so better to ignore or reject them