Do you think that young generation doesn't respect elders?
By roshigo58
@roshigo58 (4859)
Pune, India
March 18, 2013 9:17am CST
Hi,
I want to share my experience related to this. Yesterday I was going by city bus. It was very crowded. There was no place to sit. I had shopping bags in my hands and I was unable to stand. One kind boy nearly about 20 or 24 of the age offered his seat to me.
From this experience I thought that we always criticize the young generation that they don't care about old people. they are selfish or they don't have any values in life etc. But it's not true. My son also give respect to old people.
What do you think?
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45 responses
@celticeagle (167015)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Mar 13
Yes, I do think that some young people do not respect their elders. It is sad that there aren't multi generational households anymore. Grandparents instill in kids the traditions and character that they don't seem to get now days. Kids are being brought up by schools and daycare. And when they are home they are either playing video games or have the earbuds in their ears. Parents don't take time to spend with the kids. It is sad. I have taught my grandson manners and I have heard from other adults how polite he is. How nice of that young man to offer you his seat. There is some good ones out there.
@celticeagle (167015)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Mar 13
I would never disrespect my grandparents. Any older person.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
19 Mar 13
Hi,
you are right. Now a days parents have no time to teach their children good and bad. They are always busy in their working for whole day. The children who have grandparents to teach some good things in the house then they can learn some good manners. Some times children also don't want to listen to their grandparents.
Thank you for the response.
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@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
18 Mar 13
Yes, sometimes I am amazed by the young people who stand up to give me their seat! One time I was offered a seat by a kid who obviously had Down's Syndrome! He was much worse than I was really and I found that very moving indeed!
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@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
19 Mar 13
Hi,
How nice! you have very nice experience.
Thank you for the response.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
You are correct in some points and wrong in other points,because not all young people are mindful to care for older people,the same as to how they are brought by their own home or community to become a better citizen of their own age bracket
that makes a difference to your own son or to the boy,who lend his place to let you sit in his bus seat.An act of kindness is learn by the children first in his home,that their parents are their sole teachers.Many young people of today do not
tend to practice what is rightfully implemented in their school practice of good manners and right conduct.They do not know how to say-thank you,sorry,or please to anyone they encounter,so are the words--excuse me,and other words that are essential that they came from families of good breeding.
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@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
19 Mar 13
Hi,
You are right. Some parents do not teach their children good manners. In school also good manners are taught but some children do not follow them. Thus the behavior of youngsters depends upon their breeding or teaching of their parents and teachers. Thank you for the response.
@namiya (1718)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
Although I have witnessed and encountered disrespect and disregard by younger generation to elders on several occasions but generally those who give due respect and consideration to senior citizens still prevail and greatly outnumbered the former practice. Just like any aspect of life where there is always imperfections, let's just hope that the youth will realize that they too will age, hence they would strive to act the way they want to be treated years later in life.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Mar 13
Hi,
you are right. i think you have bad experience with youth. You are right. Everyone is going to become old, so everyone should think about their future. So they should respect old people. thank you for the response.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 13
i agree with you namiya, now if we not respect the elder then when the time i become elderly is our turn for young people disrecpect us too. we all human, will grow young then old.
@namiya (1718)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
Actually I personally experienced more than a couple of times while availing a public transport. Once, a lady in her twenties pushed me aside just to get in first into a taxi and another one, a college male student in school uniform bumped me so as to be able to sit first and also get a set for his girlfriend in a light railway train. These all happened during rush hours when most passengers are rushing to get ahead. However, these are only minimal occurrences compared to kindness and consideration being extended by some in most cases.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
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10 Apr 13
I think that we are seeing less of it but I would say they don't respect their elders. Just some kids are not being taught it anymore.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
10 Apr 13
Hi,
Children are taught in the childhood to respect elders.
thank you for the response.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
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10 Apr 13
Yes they should be, but there are less and less teaching it or kids just don't care what they have been taught anymore.
@blaqwynter (218)
• Canada
19 Mar 13
I honestly think in my opinion that is all depends on how the children are raised. If they are raised in a home where there's lack of respect and morality, then its possible the child will never respect their elders or anyone else around them. I had a strict upbringing, and was taught to respect my elders, and I always had. I would hold open doors for old people, or move to the back of the bus for an older person to sit, or things like helping them carry their shopping bags and have everyone stare at me. Well, at least I'm showing the world my respects to the elderly. :-)
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
19 Mar 13
hi,
You are very nice that you help old people as far as possible and show respect to them. you are raised in well disciplined family so you can behave nicely with elders. But some are unlucky that they don't have such parents who teach them good things. But sometimes some parents try to bring up their children with discipline but they are unlucky that their children don't follow their teachings.
@MALASETH (47)
• India
19 Mar 13
I have some good experiences to share. I do not look very old but have grey hair. Whenever I board a public bus, youngsters do get up and offer me their seat. It gives one a good feeling to be respected. It is true that there are all types of people that make a society. I have been lucky to receive respect for my age.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
18 Mar 13
It's not always true. We can't generalize and we know in our generation we have had a share of our own things I that we did as a teenager. Mostly though I'd think that kids so not want to be dictated about what they should or should not do; but that does not mean they are disrespectful when they disagree with the elders.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Mar 13
Hi,
you are right. Everyone has own opinions and everyone has the right to tell the opinion. But the way should be respectful and not insulting or rude. thank you for the response.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 13
it is all about how our parent or our grandpa or grandmom teach us the real and strict value of respect elderly. but nowday everyone is busy with their own career.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
18 Mar 13
I think the thoughtfulness we see in the younger generation comes from how they were raised. It is a parent who takes the time to point things out to them as they are growing up that makes them realize that a small act of kindness can make or break another person's day.
I don't think respect is a lost art sometimes. Sometimes I think people get so wrapped up in this hustle and bustle world that they forget to slow down and look at the people around them. I've been in a store and spaced out before, thinking on what to make for supper or what I need to accomplish when I get back home. Next thing I know I'm checking out and I could have let the person behind me ahead because they had 1 item to my 20.
I've been guilty of that just because not paying attention.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Mar 13
Hi,
You are right. Due to fast life sometimes we don't have the time to look around and go slowly. If we do so we may be thrown behind. Thus this is the modern fast age and these things happened unwillingly. Thank you for the response.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
20 Mar 13
life nowaday like a broadband fast forward with super high speed rush to earn more money, get the business deal, hurry here there until forget to really enjoy the life. that make life really suck sometime, i think
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
18 Mar 13
I rode on buses and train for thirty-two years while working. I would find some kids who were kind enough to give up their seats to the elderly. Then you would find many who wouldn't. In fact on occasions I would find even grown men who would run for a seat not caring one bit about a female let alone an elderly person. Like everything else in life you have the good and kind younger generation but there are always a few bad apples in that bunch.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Mar 13
Hi,
You are right. Due to some bad children we can not say that all are bad. Thank you for the response.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 13
i can say in 100 young people, only 1 person is kind enough to do like that leling1123
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Mar 13
Too me it all depends on the raising of the younger generation. If they were raised to be respectful than they will be that way. I think every person is different, some are respectful and some are not. I don't think we can judge everyone on the generation since they were all raised differently so they will act different.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Mar 13
Hi,
You are right. it depends up on the raising of the youngsters. It is the duty of the parents to teach their children how to behave with elders. If parents are not behaving well with the old people then the youngsters also behave like their parents. Thank you for the response.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
20 Mar 13
yeah it is parent duty to raise them with respect but come to think now people in rush for this that. how come got lot of time lo.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
19 Mar 13
Well not all young generation not respect older generation. I try my best to not hurt old people feeling and respect them. I am a type of shy person so i just smile when i see old person compare to talk. I very shy to talk. I hope they not think i smile because want to mocking them.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
19 Mar 13
Hi,
you are very nice as you respect old people. Smiling with old people is also like giving respect to them. Smiling doesn't need any language to speak. You can convey your feelings to others by smiling.
Thank you for the response.
@AkamaruKei (5219)
• Malaysia
20 Mar 13
Yeah young generation like me should respect old people. I hope I can make them happy when I smile.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 13
well i did respect my neighbor who are elderly, but some time the old rich guy or lady is kind of arrogant. but i did respect elders and i like to chit chat with them coz they can give me a valueable advice.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Mar 13
Hi,
You are right. Old people have long experience of life so they can give us valuable advice. But old people also should not be rude and arrogant. Young people also have feelings. Thank you for the response.
@Koon999Tan (681)
• Malaysia
18 Mar 13
they time when they live is poor time as not development compare to nowaday, when free time just go online and be in mylot chit-chat. is too much easy
@elenaliu (149)
• China
18 Mar 13
I think most of the young generation will give respect to the old people,I'm one of them.I will offer the seat to the people in need when in the bus.It is a kind of virtue to respect the old people.Most people criticize the young generation,however there are just a small part of young people don't respect the elder,because they lack of education,without good family education.So,if we want the young generation know how to respect the elder,we must know how to educate the next generation.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
18 Mar 13
Hi,
I agree with you. Because of small part of young generation whole generation is criticized. Some of your generation behave very badly with the elders. But they behave like this because they are not taught moral values in life. Thank you for the response.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
19 Mar 13
hi,
you are right. There are some people who give helping hand to old person crossing the road. Thus we can not say that young people don't respect elders.
thank you for the response.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
28 Mar 13
When I was young I was taught to respect my elders and never to answer back, or show any cheek, and I didn't have to think twice about giving my seat up for someone who needed it more than I did. I don't think we can blanket all the young generation for not respecting their elders, I think it's more fair to say that there is a small minority who don't, fortunately. Manners don't cost anything, and yet you think some people think they do, the way they behave.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
28 Mar 13
Hi,
You are right. we should not blame all the youngsters for not behaving respectfully due to some youngsters misbehavior. There are many young people who give respect to old people.
Thank you for the response.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
21 Mar 13
Hi,
you are right. It all depends on the training given by the parents to the youngsters.
thank you for the response.
@JamesKYTan (1605)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 13
Hi, I believe all this depend on the family upbringing. Nowadays, young parents are to busy pursuing their dreams. Thereby neglecting to look after their children. The children will end up being taken care by their maid. What do you expect from a maid? Do you think the maid will teach these children about values? Most of the maids do not bother. However, those parents who spend quality time with their children will teach them about family values and respect for the elders. Give reverence for the elders.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
25 Mar 13
Hi,
You are right. Today almost all parents are busy in their work. So they don't have the time to teach their children how to respect elders. They are dependent on maid who is not responsible for teaching them values. In nuclear family there are no grand parents who can teach children the moral values in life.
Thank you for the response.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
27 Apr 13
actually its not that though there are really difference of the young generation now a days compare to the young age generation before,most of child before are afraid to the elders and their parents but the current young generation today is not.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
27 Apr 13
Hi,
you are right. In olden days most of the children are afraid of their parents. But young generation is more smart and it is not afraid of elders.
Thank you for the response.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
31 Mar 13
hi,
you are right. Parents should set an example before young generation. Their behavior should be proper in front of the children. It is the parent's responsibility to teach their children what is good and what is bad. Thank you for the response.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
13 Apr 13
Hi,
Very few from young generation don't respect elders. But it is not so that all generation is disrespectful.
thank you for the response.