Some people just enjoy being mean.
By aubrey
@averygirl72 (37845)
Philippines
March 18, 2013 8:09pm CST
I seem to feel that some people have addictions to being mean to other people. Probably they derived some form of happiness in doing so. They might not think if the object of their bullying gets hurt or feels bad, what is important is the fun part of it. Don't know what psychology they have. So, I just realized these people are really freaks and they think their being annoying to you is super cute on their part. They will test your patience to the point you lose your wits. When your suffering and is about to cry, you seem to feel that they are smiling from ear to ear. The more they pester you the more you make their day.
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14 responses
@Laurenlynn (715)
• Canada
19 Mar 13
Oh I know just what you mean Avery they are nothing more than bullies when they get pleasure from your unhappiness. I think also they are so unhappy they want to see you the same way I suppose this is where "misery loves company" came from.
@passion4fassion (996)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
Some people trying to show how strong they are fe want to show that they are happy and some of they have kept someting on their self they just pretend what they showing cause the true is they feel like the people they bully are more lucky than them
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
20 Mar 13
yes I know one woman who has this thing and I don't like her. People are just courteous to her because they fear that this woman's sharp tongue would slice them into pieces. Aside from that... she's always reporting something to the boss making others bad. Does she have friends? none... people are just going along with her. Karma will surely strike her again... with her attitude
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
Yeah they love using their sharp tongue to slice you up making you look stupid but in the end they look more stupid.
@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
20 Mar 13
I know some people like that too and it's a pity that annoying people seems to be what they enjoy! I feel very sorry for them!
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
I used to be angry with them but now I pity them. I have to understand.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
20 Mar 13
Hi averygirl!
Others think of themselves are superior over the others and doing that thing is one way to convince themselves that they are. But i don't think they deserve much attention. If ever I encounter people like this, I just ignore them and until they get tired and leave me.
Have a great day!
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
They will leave you if you ignore them. They are power trippers and ego trippers that have nothing else in the world matters but their ego.
@RiverLight (240)
• Romania
20 Mar 13
I also met this kind of people, i can only say they're wasting their lives doing this. Instead of making others feel bad they could do something for theirselves..i feel pity for them, really. Some of them failed with their lives and try to make others to feel unhappy too. I just ignore mean people and i'm a very patient person :)
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
They are wasting their time. I don't want to waste my time so just let them eventually they will get tired.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
20 Mar 13
Yes, you are right, friend, there are many people that cannot life without depend on somebody else. If we have friend like that we cannot enjoy our life because they always disturb our days. I have a friend like this one year ago, and I am crazy with all her action to me. She cannot far from me, she always want and want I help her. This condition make me do not enjoy my life when she together with me. if you have a friend like this, it is a good idea you go away from her.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
Ah you are right.I've met lots of them and in fact have been continuously meeting them. What to do?...
... Well don't make their day. I think that is the only way to conquer them. There are a lot of mean people indeed but why let them do their thing on you. You can turn the table by not being affected no matter what they say or do.Make them feel they are nothing and as if they don't exist. For sure, they'd end up nothing but stup!d.
@cvodrey (225)
• United States
19 Mar 13
Some people are just narcissists. They act like they are better than everyone else because it makes them feel better about themselves, but they are little more than pathetic. I'm sorry if someone you know is making you feel this way. They tend to pry on people who are caring and unwilling to fight back -it's just not right. Personally I would prescribe them some of their own medicine and bully back, but sometimes that backfires.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
Narcissists yes, they are. They think they are just the best creation ever in the world and everybody who is inferior to them are piece of junk. I can smell now if they are like that and simply ignore.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
I do agree with you on that. Some people just have the fulfillment of annoying people for their pure pleasure and enjoyment. Completely blinded and insensitive towards other people's feelings, they are simple the meanest people on earth!
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
19 Mar 13
I met a guy and he is really a good boy,he is energetic and happy.Made me feel good to stay together.Anyway,i don't think the person also being happy for his own act to others.So i won't do that,just made your day by doing things you enjoyed and it works.Good for you.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
Well there always people like those around waiting for the opputunity to annoy and mean to others. That is what they wanted all the time. We have ignored them and dont get bothered cause it will serve as encouragement to them to do it over and over again.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
some people are really like that, that is what makes them feel good and superior to other people..actually these kind of people are really weak, unhappy, lonely and miserable. they pass this negativity on to other people by doing and saying mean and negative words and things. seeing other people feel hurt, pain, and suffer makes them feel good about themselves. i think the best thing to do for these kind of people is to ignore them, stay positive always and don't let them win over you, because the more you lose the more they will be superior. so let yourself win and them losers so they will be more lonely and miserable than they already are.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
It's 2 types the one is insecure, the one is simply arrogant. They should not be entertained coz' your loneliness is their happiness.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
19 Mar 13
I know lots of people like that, have been a victim as well a couple of times and it is sad. I find that they need help because their self-esteem are actually suffering and they think they can be better whenever they make the other person feel down and bad about themselves. If only they tried to befriend that person instead, they should have find out that that person is actually someone who can help them gain back their self confidence or even be a very valuable network.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
Before I used to be affected and victimized but now I feel sorry for them because they are absolute freaks!
@catchpazuzu (99)
• Portugal
19 Mar 13
There is a reason why people are mean to others. To make themselves feel better for their own flaws and concerns! Unfortunally thats just the way the world goes round and round...
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
That's how the world goes round and round...can be fun at times. Just be careful when they are around, wear some special coverings and gears.