experience of becoming widow
@extremefun4fun (2908)
India
March 19, 2013 4:06am CST
some people says that having a bad husband is better than living without man. they used to think that lady always need a man othewise society will not give that much respect to an alone lady... How do you think and agree with it?
I used to think daily, that what is the experience of becoming widow? some ladies wish to become a widow, but I want to know , what is that experience? is life better with a husband? or experience of becoming widow is better?
which life is more easier for a lady? which one more suffer in the society? widow one or the one who still have husband?
4 responses
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
20 Mar 13
For me and it works for me it is better to have NO HUSBAND. I am single and I don't see myself a wife. I don't know maybe I am destined to be single. so I have no comparison if it is better to be single or with irresponsible husband. I don't know anything about status quo of being single.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
21 Mar 13
I really wish i could be you if you are single. I really wish to become single as well and to have a happy life with my kid ever.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
21 Mar 13
don't say that extreme.. maybe we are destined to be this way.. you with husband me no one. if you have the safe fate like me.. you might think that you should have husband.
@sarameastrong (826)
• Surrey, British Columbia
23 Mar 13
for me?i prefer to lost that bad husband or just file legal break up.but maybe i need another man who will truly love me unlike that bad husband that always hurt me doing bad things.yes life will be better if you have loyal and a good husband that will be the perfect man that you love each other lifetime and never fades.i don't know the experience of feeling of being widow since i am still single.i must love the man that loves me also.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
24 Mar 13
to be single is much better than having a bad man. marriage is like a heary chain which close legs specially if it come with not perfect man, then life of lady destroy with it. enjoy your single time till you find a really good man.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
Regardless of whichever you belong to, you are sure to have problems. A single woman is not free from any forms of trial in life. And a married woman is neither free from getting her own share of miseries. Widow or not, it is just a matter of how you would value your life.
@teotimoponcerosacena (1552)
• Philippines
19 Mar 13
It depend of what kind of husband do you have. It is almost good if you have a partner in life as you go older but if you have a partner who will be a liabilities better not to have.
